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Should your sex life stay private?

BillieTheBotBillieTheBot Posts: 8,721 Bot
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Our latest article is about a boyfriend who brags to all his mates down the pub about his sex life:
http://ned.thesite.org.uk/sex/general_sex/i_dated_a_blabbermouth.html

Has your ex ever told people the intimate details of your sex life? Or have you ever bragged and been caught out? What's it like?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, my severely psycho ex bragged a lot, so I hear. He wasn't much to write home about either <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; From a psychological point of view, he probably knows he's no Casonova, and is insecure about that. He makes up for it by boasting about what he hasn't got or has done quickly. Cheap shot? You betcha!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My ex (father of bubba) used to go around telling everyone how big his dick was and how he left girls exhausted after spending the night with them!This was a total load of bollox...well in my oppinion anyway. His mates were so happy when they asked me if he was all he made out to be and I told them that he chatted a load of crap!!
    When a bloke brags about his sex life and the size of his goods, its most likely to be the opposite. I mean if you have got it anyway, theres no need to brag about it is there!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my ex-ex and i decided to have sex for the first time when we finished our exams 2 summers ago coz we didn't want to mess confuse things during them. after the last exam a friend of mine had a party and everyone kept coming up to me asking if i'd done it yet. i was wondering at first what the hell they were on about and then it clicked, everyone in the room knew about this plan and they were all waiting for us to get it on. aparently he'd been going round the whole day talking about how he was gonna get laid. i was absolutely livid!
    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ouch, Ouch, OUCH! all of these stories give us a bad name, it must be down to the EVIL GENE that all those americans keep going on about...then again they also reckon there's a gay gene so what can ya do?

    Never having been a victim of g/f braggery it seems almost unbelievable that all these stupid buggers would go and say things like that, but i do have a mate who is a compulsive lier so i can sympathise with j9, i mean he says things that sometimes just arn't even possible, that we KNOW arn't true. He's a nice bloke in his way which is why we're all still friends but he did used to brag about all his g/f with the exact kinda stuff you're talking about here, which was really annoying.
    But still, it must be something to do with insecurity or something like that, because all his relationships (and he's had a fair few) never lasted longer than a fortnight, if he was just an ordinary bastard you'd have thought it would click eventually that u just can't treat ur better half that way.
    Life is like a pubic hair on a toilet seat, before too long, you get pissed off
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx guys - u've saved my ass. I've been warned by my gf not to say anything newa, but still it seems to slip out - not bragging, but stuff I'd rather they didn't know. Anyway, now that i know the consequences of it, I think i'll keep an even tighter grip of my relationship.

    :-)
    I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    while i agree with all the stories that all kinds of sexual bragging to mates is bad... i have to confess ive sort of done it myself! well not bragging.. just having in depth discussions with my mate in school about our respective boyfriends! but after she accidentally (on purpose) let something slip to our other friends id rather they didnt know, i swore her to secrecy and vice versa and it was quite a good way to pass time in the library, writing notes to each other (and then tearing them into very small bits afterwards!!)... its funny coz the stereotype is for blokes to brag about their sexual encounters, but i dont actually know many who do, at least not my boyfriend and other people's boyfriends, they were too scared to say anything to each other! quite amusing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's cos we get abused...hey that gives me an idea, new topic time ===>
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its important if ur luv life stays a secret cus i think its more special when its just between u.ps:unless u wan it out in the open!c ya
    *think before u leap*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well me and my Bf seem to have a small problem like that but He's told everyone he hadn't had it so much or as good with anyone else than with me.. I can't really say it's bad, but my bestest m8 is starting to complain about him droning on about it.
    The only problem is that he brags about all the positions we do it in too eekk
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Karla you foxy lady!
    The only problem i have ever had with an ex was when she went down the pub and told all me mates i wasn't too well endowered ...... LIES I TELL YOU, BLOODY LIES! And really thats the only problem that i have ever had!
    BaRt
    Live Life On The Edge!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My ex told his friends (who also happened to be some of my best friends) all the stuff that we did together in "graphic detail." They said they didn't want to know and it made them feel sick, but he just couldn't help bragging.

    He was a sicko. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, my ex and i both kept our sex life private and i really appreciated him for doing so. talking about it to a friend u really trust is another thing - if there is a problem u wanna air out but bragging is just being immature and annoucing it on the school notice board! not a nice thing to do is it? i hate it when boys brags to his mates about what he and his g/f does, it's no-one else's business and if he really did value the relationship, he should keep his mouth shut about such a personal issue within a relationship. it's only called respect for your partner. and i think respect is really important when you are with someone...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One of my mates is constantly telling us about her sex life, and we just dont want to hear it!! We were all doing it way before her, not that that matters, but its like we dont know these things already!! If we asked, then fair enough, but its all she ever talks about, grrr!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    congrats on making front page lolly <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cant beleive I made front page...Im sooo chuffed!Thanx u lovely moderaters u <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can't say i ever bragged about it, i may have asked mates for advice but never went into intimate details.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me and my best mate talk about atuff we've done, not in graphic detail or nothing but like if we've done something wierd or new we might say something like "oh guess what i did last night",

    is that bragging?

    Is that allowed?

    I dont know, where do you draw the line?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spirit II:
    Me and my best mate talk about atuff we've done, not in graphic detail or nothing but like if we've done something wierd or new we might say something like "oh guess what i did last night",

    is that bragging?

    Is that allowed?

    I dont know, where do you draw the line?

    lol I talk to you and my best mate about stuff I do...not everything but you know what I mean don't you...but its not bragging! Its just talking about sex isnt it ? Although I dunno what he'd say if he knew I told my friends?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this is not jolizzie11 its her b/f. i just want to say that telling every about your sexlife takes the...... i dont know wot but when people know about it its not your sexlife ne more. when me and my mates are at the pub thay are all saying wot thay av done to their g/f. if their g/f knew wot thay are saying thay would kill them (i went to school with most of them).
    i would'nt want ne one knowing wot me and our jo get up to only that we have the best time of our life!!!
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