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connfused dont know what to do
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I have been seeing this guy for almost a year. We got together on the terms as sex buddies well 3 months into our realationship I fell for him and I came clean with him...he said he couldnt persue a realationship at the moment. we both agreed we wouldnt see anyone else.we still hung out and and we have gotten alot closer. I stay at his house all the time he visits me and we talk online when we arent together. So I asked him if he would ever do a threesome and he would. I asked about me doing it and he didnt want to discuss it any farther so it was dropped . well just recently I have brought it up and he said he would and he thought about me doing it and he just said he couldnt see me with anyone else and no man is worthy of being with me and men are all pigs and flat out NO. which I can't see why he thinks that way. he claims were not in a relationship and to some of his friends were g/f -b/f and to some were just friends. I hate that he wont tell me what he wants or whats going thru his mind. I don't know what's up am I making more of this then there is. Can someone just give it to me straight any help is appreciated. thanks ~Beck~
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He must have said that wrong because the only pig thats not worthy of being with you......IS HIM!!!
In the words of my favorite talk show when I was 11- Jenny Jones
"drop that zero, and get yourself a hero"
cheesiest thing I've ever said in my life but you really need to tell him to get lost. Oh and for the record- Men do not treat women like *that*, boys treat women like *that*
Good luck!!
Say to him that either he makes up his mind weather he wants you or not or you go else where.
At the moment this guy that you're seeing is getting as much sex as he wants from you and loads of fun yet if he ever did anything with another girl he's got a great get out clause...you're not going out properly.
He's just got used to 'having his cake and eating it' if you get what I mean. I've been through this before and surprise surprise when I finally got sick of being the non-girlfriend and walked away it took the guy a week before he wanted me back and on a serious boyfriend/girlfriend basis
Good luck
Good to know because if you were on the same page with every little thing, I'd be worried. It's good to have different opinions because when you both work at strengthening your relationship, both of you will benefit from being honest with your emotions and eachother.