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Anyone been in love?
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Just a general post really...
Has anyone been in love? Like where you've never felt like that about anyone before?
Just like to hear your views and also how you know when you really are in love with someone?
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I think that it can be a reality if your open to it. Although that can make you vulnerable and so sometimes I tend to close myself off if I like someone. Thats how I feel different at the moment cos in the past whenever Ive liked somone and they turn out to like me, I close off and dont do anything. I have really strong feelings for a guy at the moment and hes the first guy Ive not run away from when it turned out he liked me back. Guess thats why I feel this is different and maybe stronger than before.
:rolleyes:
And i got hurt way too much both times
I have loved them all, but in very different ways.
I dont really know how to discribe how i felt, but i know that they all felt and feel different.
Love is different in every relationship you're in:D
I've recently got together with this guy and we've been going out for about a month. Hes basically told me that hes falling for me in a big way and that hes falling/is in love with me.
Its scared me shiteless to be quite honest with you and I didn't know what to say. I prefer not to put a label on such feelings as it makes life a bit easier. I think about him all the time and feel a lot for him too...it feels so good when we're together, but the whole LOVE thing terrifies me!
but you lot are too cynical to call it love 'ohhh you're only 16' hah i was 14 at the time.
i think its easier to be 'in love' when you are younger, you arent looking for the faults in people.
just a thought
Love is wonderful but it can hurt so much as well.
I would disagree that young love is not real - just people laugh and think nothing of it when there's kids falling in love because they aren't mature enough to know what it means. I fell in love when I was 7 :razz: and nobodys telling me it wasn't real!!
But, I've still felt very attatched with that person at the time. Being around them brings an incredible wave of emotions, some good, some bad. They seem to infatuate every sensation in my body, and their very structure is absorbed by each of these senses.
I dunno if it's love, but it sure feels pretty damn close to it.
The best quote there is. I've been in 2 long-term relationships, I loved them both. I reckon you can't just love one person, you can fall in love with many people.
But with the first guy he treated me like crap, so me loving him = me getting hurt.
second guy, i was soooo much in love. then he fell out of love with me.... grr.
Now i'm with someone else, been about a month and a half. and....hmm I'm in love again. god that makes me sound so fickle... :rolleyes: