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Crap in Bed
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I saw on another thread lots of girls said their boyfriends were crap in bed but that was it, just one liners, can you girls like give more details (guys too if you want) as to what constitutes crap in bed with examples so the rest of us may learn.
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My ex was bad in bed because he didn't seem to enjoy foreplay, it was more of a case of wham bam thank you mam and although that's fun sometimes when it's everytime you have sex it's just not enough. Also I don't think there was enough chemistry between us, there seemed to be when we kissed and stuff but during sex...nope non.
But im gonna appreciate any advice given in this thread anyway
with fingering for example i cannot stand it when a bloke just well pretty much shoves his fingers up there...what happened to the kissing etc?!
Yeah that and lack of foreplay. Also my ex was a guy he just had sex to satify himself and not me. selfish pig he was!
though tbh i have had times where i lasted about that myself, but apparently thats cause im selfish.
Though i have a question for you, would it matter how long he lasted had you had enough foreplay?
Hmm my girlfriend doesnt like the fact that i take forever to cum, honestly can take a very long time.Much longer than it takes her, so i think that can be a problem too:(
Lack of interest.
But I have the perfect bf so I'm not complaining
When they expect you to finish, just by them thrusting away.
When they finish, and collapse on top of you.
When they keep trying to go for *another hole* and pretend it was an accident.
When they are majorly stubbly and keep rubbing their face on your body and irritating your skin!
When they do it "by numbers", exactly the same each time- kiss for 5 minutes, kiss body for 2 minutes, put it in, etc etc. Boring. variety is the answer.
If you don't talk to your bloke he probably thinks you are shit in bed too.
If you can't talk to your partner about sex, what you like and what you don't, then then you shouldn't be having sex with him or her. Simple as.
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Agree 100%
That trick never fails to make me laugh but pisses me off if they keep attempting it. My ex used to do that and in the end i got rather fuck** off when he wouldn't respect the fact that it was never going to happen. Puts a whole new meaning to the phrase watch your back.