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Im on my way to doing a Candice! HELP!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Strange title-but it got your attention didn't it!? <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Well, Im 15 and I recently met this guy (Boy X). Hes lovely-really nice and really mature. Could be because he's 18! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I dont know whether to be bothered by the age difference or not. Thats the first problem.

The second is that another really nice guy chatted me up last week (Boy Y) <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> . He's 15 and seems nice. Only trouble is, Boy X texted me today saying, I didnt know you knew my brother. Argh!!!! Turns out Boy X and Boy Y are brothers! I mean, what are the odds of that?!

I dont know WHAT to do now. I mean, I really like boht of them as mates, maybe morwe. Bt wouldn't one of them get a teeny bit hacked off if I went out with the other one? Which one would YOU recommend? My mates think they're both nice and can't believe what I've one. hence the nickname 'Candice' i.e. Im after 2 brothers! Thank y'all!

Luv me


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wo, a very lucky girl you are...! Having two guys coming after you, things just can't be better, so be happy about it and not to worry too much for now.

    Now, back to the "They're brothers" problem. Do they both fancy you and want to go out with you? Or do they just like you a lot and haven't think of asking you out?

    I'd say wait and find out who cares about you most, and pick the most loving/caring one. One other thing, 3 years isn't that bad, plus you find him mature, which is part of him that you like, so it's not a problem.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sod the age gap - it's three years, not thirty, and maturity has nothing to do with calendar years.

    Chris Evans is living proof of this.

    Heh heh. Very true. <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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