kissing girls

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ok theres this girl i fancy i want to ask her out if i go out with her the pressure will be on to snog her (ive neva kissed a girl before) is there n e thing i should or should not do?

any kissing tips?

girls what do u like in kissing a boy?

please help bye!

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Originally posted by darkmaster:
ok theres this girl i fancy i want to ask her out if i go out with her the pressure will be on to snog her (ive neva kissed a girl before) is there n e thing i should or should not do?

any kissing tips?

girls what do u like in kissing a boy?

please help bye!

i'mi sure if you take your time and brush your teeth and allow yourself not to be nervous you should be ok.

also don't over do the mints. just make sure your breath isn't stinky.

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i recommend chewing garlic, smoking half a carton, and maybe eating some really sour sweets. hmmm, also, u might want to consider getting a lip infection, or something like that...hmmm- also make sure ur ill, so u can pass it on, er- oh yeah try biting her lip, not erotic nibling, but a savage bite( consider pros and cons of filing teeth to points- remember the risk of biting ur own tongue) Raight- I think that should do it.

Just reread what you'd written- for some reason i thought you wanted the girl to run away screaming- never mind, basically try doing the opposite (quite easy for the most part). Also it helps if your french...but then you probaly can't do anything about that. Even so I'm sure you'll manage.

[This message has been edited by Fallen (edited 22-09-2001).]

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This will probably sound really patronising, but u sound almost as if you don't really want to kiss her, if u ask her out then it's not as if u have to kiss her straight away.
If u do really want it to happen, then just be really gentle, especially as it'll be your first kiss with her.
Don't know if this'll have helped!!
xxxx

[This message has been edited by TheAngelicPieface (edited 22-09-2001).]

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it aint that i dont want to its just that u will find urself under that pressure it just happens specialy at school

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ok no offence but all u newbies sucked at givin this person advise


first of all, it will all come natually i swear!,
seen as its ur first time dont go mad, be quite slow, u dont wanna end up dribbling, breath through ur nose and take a breath every 1 or so untill u have got the hang of it, just give her a few pecks after and before, and hold her hands, dont worry about it hun it will be fine

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Well, I guess I better say what I like in kissing...

It really puts me off if a guy is uncreative and just sticks his tongue down my throat. I like him to work up to a tongue kiss, you know, like a few kisses near the mouth, then on the lips....then finally inside the mouth. Be gentle, maybe close your eyes and use your hands a little on her body.
I don't mean touch her up, I just mean hold her gently, make plenty of eye contact and just be yourself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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cheers guys what u said helped secialy the garlic comment ill bare it in mind.

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All that about kissing around the face and things...if this is the first kiss in a cinema or something you don't do that!

You move in slowly, lightly kissing her then slowly open your mouth a bit. If she opens hers too you know ya gotta go for the tongue <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; put your tongue into her mouth slightly til you touch her tongue. After that its just plain easy! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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you just basically put your lips onto hers and let it flow <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Whatever you do, DON'T THINK ABOUT IT.
Thats the first rule of kissing. When you are kissing a person clear your mind completely and just let it flow.

Secondly, start off slow and build it up. Don't go barging in there with tongues straight the way.

Gently kiss her with your lips open just a little bit (no tongue!) and then start building up from that... Add a lil' bit more tongue and then as you both get a bit more comfortable it will just flow which ever way it flows...

But don't go to gently! I don't like it when guys kiss really gently but I hate it when they are really ruff too!!

I'll tell you one thing that is really great though... I used to "see" this guy (who is also one of closest friends now) and he used to do this "thing" with his tongue - when we were in full kissin swing he would move his tongue really fast from side to side. It kinda startled me at first but it's probably what I always look for in a kiss now (maybe cos it reminds me of him but thats another topic!!).

Anyway hope I've helped in a complicated way and don't stress or think about it.

A kiss should not be thought about or planned - It should just happen.

Shezza xx

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Whatever you do, DON'T THINK ABOUT IT.
Thats the first rule of kissing. When you are kissing a person clear your mind completely and just let it flow.

Secondly, start off slow and build it up. Don't go barging in there with tongues straight the way.

Gently kiss her with your lips open just a little bit (no tongue!) and then start building up from that... Add a lil' bit more tongue and then as you both get a bit more comfortable it will just flow which ever way it flows...

But don't go to gently! I don't like it when guys kiss really gently but I hate it when they are really ruff too!!

I'll tell you one thing that is really great though... I used to "see" this guy (who is also one of closest friends now) and he used to do this "thing" with his tongue - when we were in full kissin swing he would move his tongue really fast from side to side. It kinda startled me at first but it's probably what I always look for in a kiss now (maybe cos it reminds me of him but thats another topic!!).

Anyway hope I've helped in a complicated way and don't stress or think about it.

A kiss should not be thought about or planned - It should just happen.

Shezza xx

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ul find it just comes naturally 2 ya! if u really like her ask her out, +afta the first time ul b fine, the less nervous u r the easier it is so try and chill out!
luv me
xxx

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everyone likes to be kissed differently. You will have your own style so no-one can tell you how to kiss. The other person will have there own style aswell and if they match (youll know cos it will be a good kiss)then you know your not doin anything wrong.
if it doesnt go well, remember that you just might not be matched in the kissing department, it doesnt mean your a rubbish kisser

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First thing u gotta no is wen u as her out the chances of u kissin then is pretty small. So if all goes well 1st time u kiss will b 1st/2nd date. wenever it is, u just gotta relax, u may want ur 1st kiss 2 b special, but try gettin a little drunk, but still in control, there4 u can relax a bit. it comes naturally, if u stop thikin n just do it. gud luck m8 n enjoy it!!

last bit o advice - u may b nervous but wotever u do DO NOT GET AN ERECTION WILE KISSIN HER worst thing u can do(trust me!)

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Well if you like her ask her out. The kissing thing all really depends on how fast you want to take it.
This is just my opinion but i don't really like French kisses on the first date.

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good luck on the kissing thing. I still remember my first kiss - ahhhhh.

no really just enjoy it and if she has kissed people befroe let her lead at first and then u wont ruin things by sticking ur tongue down her throat when she doesnt want u to

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To be perfectly honest with you I wouldn't bother with the garlic! Get drunk, and that way you'll be relaxed and it'll be more natural. Try snogging an orange first (!) cus it'll give you practice!!!!!!

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Just like what some people had already said: Don't think about it. It'll come as it happens, you'll find the right moment when it comes.

1. Do not have your mouth wide open! Just relax your lips...
2. Don't try to stick your tongue down her straight away. Make sure you two are comfy with lips and tongue contacts first...
3. Close your eyes when you do it, that way, you tends to enjoy the moment more. But don't do it as if you don't want to see her face.
4. DO NOT have dry lips. Drink of water helps, tends to clear your breath slightly as well.
5. Body contact is good as well...some sort of hugging...you'll figure that out.

Good luck!
(I wish I have someone to kiss)...