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***Trust***

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hi!
I dunno wot to do cos i dont trust my boyfreind at all! And wots the point of a relationship without trust? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Thing is hes always tellin me about girls that have tried it on wiv him and says that nothing happened. I always think that mayb hes tellin me so i dnt think that anything will have happened but i dnt believe him. Obviously hes not gonna tel me, so do u think i shud leave it or do i have the rite to not trust him?
thanx 4 any advice! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And wots the point of a relationship without trust?

    You said it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And you posted it twice. Now the test here is to delete the right one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with the sentiments of Go Away.

    Unless you can see a way to come to trust him then its not worth carrying on.
    Thats what ended my last relationship. I gave up trusting.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How do u feel about this guy tho? Is not trusting him making you not love him, or do you love him despite the trust factor? I agree that trust is a very important issue in a relationship, but i hate to be cheesy etc, so everybody get the sick bags ready but........in the end, love conquers all <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Relationships (of almost all kinds) are based on trust, it's an element that can't be left out in order to make the relationship to work.

    If trust is gone, there're basically two choices. One, find that trust again. Two, end the relationship. There might be other options, but surely carrying on with a relationship that has no trust in it is really worrying, you'll think about a lot of things, worry a lot, and you don't want that because it's really stressful.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if your not in a trusting relationhip get out of it before anyone gets hurt if you leave it it will be hrder to give up on whats right.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What I don't get is why does he tell you that girls have tried it on with him.

    Is it a)because he's just trying to freak you out
    or b) because he has to say something cos you ask him if he's faithful so often.

    If it's a then he's a twit and yes you should leave him.

    If it's B then perhaps you have been badgering him too much about something that isn't really going on.

    He has to deserve your trust though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx for all the help wiv this one!! cheers xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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