Male 'slags' and female 'slags'?

Former Member

why is it that its so bad for a guy to have not lost his virginity when he's 20+ but for a girl its considered right that they havent had many partners?

Why can a guy have sex with as many people as he wants and he is called 'the man' and a 'stallion' but a girl who enjoys sex just as much gets a bad name and labelled a 'slag'? I dont understand the difference. If a guy said to me 'I'm still a virgin.' i would be really touched, he obviously has considered sex as quite an important thing...I just dont get it!!!? Anyone else want to explain???!!!

Former Member

Tbe hoenst, as long as it wasn't with a stupidly large number of blokes, I don't care how many blokes a girl has slept with. If i'm with a girl, as long as she's faithful, I don't care what she's done before. I do encourage some of my girl-mates to "go and get it", and don't think any less of them when they do! I think obviosly different people think differently, some blokes for example seem to find it intrusive to their privacy if they find out that their girl slept with *anyone* before she started going out with him

Former Member

i dunno why that is, but as far as i know it is mainly other girls that call lasses slags, usually because there jealous!! if lasses were less bitchy wit each other then maybe less ppl would be called slags?!?!