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I hate girls now :(
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Ive just had enough of girls now. I havent met a single one, who dosent have hurting me on thier agenda, they are thee most manipulative creatures ever put on this planet.
I liked this gal from the net, she liked me too, but it turned out she was lying her F****** a** off, what a slut, well im glad she has gone now.
Im gona look 4ward to single life 4eva tht is the best way to be.
Ive discovered there isnt any girl out there for me, or any1 decent for that matter, so ive given up my search now.
Ive come to my conclusion.......
Girls= pain + suffering, they are evil and manipulative. and i never want to see one again.
I liked this gal from the net, she liked me too, but it turned out she was lying her F****** a** off, what a slut, well im glad she has gone now.
Im gona look 4ward to single life 4eva tht is the best way to be.
Ive discovered there isnt any girl out there for me, or any1 decent for that matter, so ive given up my search now.
Ive come to my conclusion.......
Girls= pain + suffering, they are evil and manipulative. and i never want to see one again.
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I'm sure there are girls around here that think the same thing about blokes you know...everyone has their fair share of ups and downs with the opposite sex...its all part of life and finding the right person. No offence but i think you'll find it hard to stay single and be happy when all your mates have girls. Please dont get angry with us coz one girl made us look bad...we aint all like that...we have feelings too... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
i am the emotionless freak who dusnt make sense on a good day
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1. i liked this girl at skool (ive left now), and i liked her 4 a lomng time, in the ned she changed into a slut (am i aloowed to say tht on here?)
2. i liked this girl called helen, at skool, and she ended up h8in me 4 sum reason, we made up though, avent seen her since.
3. i got used on holiday for a bit of fun, a girl seduced me, and masturbated me, and i ended up going down on her. I wanted to talk to her agian cause she seemed cute, but she just snubbed me off, i felt soo used. If she hadnt rubbed my legs i wouldnt have done what i did.
4. most deadly, she had the cheek to lie to me and lead me on, i liked her, she sed she liked me too, but she was just lying to me, and didnt ave the bottle to tell me. WHAT A LOSER!! i felt so in love wif her, and whats more shes fro this site.
Now tht isnt one incident, now if you take other factors into account wif this.......
1. ive never had a gf, and im 16
2. ive left skool and i could goto college cause id get bullied, and i messed my D+T assignmet up big-time, and id know id do the same for this one. I dont have any friends now, cause they all went to college cause there "gr8 people", but i got a job stuck wif 40 yo women who just dont stop saying aload of crap. So im not in a postion to meet any1 now, i applied to jobs but thry dont want to know nemore.
3. Wen u get older feeling depressed, it gets much worse, and i need to see a counsellor, but im too shy, and im gona terre myslef apart.
4. no girl ever liked me at skool, so no girl will like me now
U say i cant survive on my own? well i can cause ive been totally on my own all my life and i think that is trying to tell me sumthing (im not meant to ave sum1, and me tryin to ave sum1 is a way of punishing me)
So i can survive on my own, not everyone finds sum1 u know, im just one of those people.
Well single life aint gona b bad.
sometimes being 'used' isn't such a bad thing, i bet 95% of guys would love this to happen to them.
maybe she was a bit embarressed about what happened mmm ?
basically it was just a bit of fun, thats what most of these holiday 'romances' are about..
but if you're looking for a proper relationship then you will have to make friendships with a lot of girls so you have a wide selection to choose from, since you no longer go to school/college i don't know how you will achieve this, maybe someone can suggest other methods of socializing?
you said your friends go to college but i'm sure that doesn't prevent them going to a club with you on the weekends ??
i have never had a long term relationship with a girl and i'm 19years old, now how sad is that.
And "Woot" ur wrong, i h8d being used, and theres no-point trying to suggest ideas to me now, theres no point, ive always been a one-woman person, now im a no-woman person.
A slut, thats a harsh word, so she's playing the field, shes discovered sex and she enjoy's it, wouldn't think thats such a crime, all people go through a stage where they hop about for a bit, its something new isnt it... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
.... and yes you can say that on here <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
2. i liked this girl called helen, at skool, and she ended up h8in me 4 sum reason, we made up though, avent seen her since.
These things happen, I fell out with one of my closest female friends over my other mate cheating on her and me declaring myself neutral cause I didn't want to get involved anymore. The thing I've found with friends from school is that I don't see 90% of who I said I would, you move on and meet more people....
3. i got used on holiday for a bit of fun, a girl seduced me, and masturbated me, and i ended up going down on her. I wanted to talk to her agian cause she seemed cute, but she just snubbed me off, i felt soo used. If she hadnt rubbed my legs i wouldnt have done what i did.
Sounds very similar to what a lad might do, its a one-night stand type senerieo, these things happen, don't worry... just take it as a learning curve. Holiday romances are usually all the same, bit of fun and no commitment.
4. most deadly, she had the cheek to lie to me and lead me on, i liked her, she sed she liked me too, but she was just lying to me, and didnt ave the bottle to tell me. WHAT A LOSER!! i felt so in love wif her, and whats more shes fro this site.
Eeek! thats not too good, who is this criminal? nahh really, sometimes girls make mistakes and so do lads, imagine it from her point of view, something might of come up, maybe she suddenly decided she wasn't as keen for some reason, its not always so easy, you can hurt people when trying not to.
Now tht isnt one incident, now if you take other factors into account wif this.......
1. ive never had a gf, and im 16
Your 16 mate, your still young! Just cause you've never had a girlfriend doesn't mean anything. Women are yet to discover you.... I think I'd gone out with 2 girls by the time I got to 16, most of my friends had gone with more... it always seems like everyones having more relationships than you, but they aren't all I promise... you just think they are <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
2. ive left skool and i could goto college cause id get bullied, and i messed my D+T assignmet up big-time, and id know id do the same for this one.
I messed up at school when I left too, I dropped out of college and joined the army which was the biggest mistake of my life then spent 18 months in hell... but since then I've knuckled down and made something... college isn't the be all and end all, none of my close friends went to college.
I dont have any friends now, cause they all went to college cause there "gr8 people"
That doesn't mean they're not your friends does it? Just cause they move somewhere else or whatever doesn't mean you loose your friendship, get in touch with them.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
but i got a job stuck wif 40 yo women who just dont stop saying aload of crap. So im not in a postion to meet any1 now, i applied to jobs but thry dont want to know nemore.
hahaha, know the feeling, I'm the youngest in my job by about 8 or 9 years, there aren't any women under 29 and half the people here have sons or daughters as old as me (19).... some jobs will be full cause everyones gone looking for them after school, just stick with what your doing, get a CV then move on, you won't be there forever... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
3. Wen u get older feeling depressed, it gets much worse, and i need to see a counsellor, but im too shy, and im gona terre myslef apart.
Unfortunatly life does become harder, I can't worm my way out of that one for you but its not all depressing, you've got nightclubs and more money on the horizon than you ever used to... soon you'll have girlfriends and your own flat... life is an adventure.... if your depressed then talk to someone, even if its just here, people will always try and help you out... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
4. no girl ever liked me at skool, so no girl will like me now
nahhh, this is something I learnt, you probably didn't recognise any girls liking you, I've found out quite recently (cause I'm emigrating) how many of my female (and male.. lol) friends actually like me in that context, I was gutted cause if some of them had told me back then I would of done something about it... its a learning curve.
So i can survive on my own, not everyone finds sum1 u know, im just one of those people. Well single life aint gona b bad.
I can survive on my own too, I haven't been in a proper b/f / g/f relationship for about 18 months, I've seen people but never anything too serious, just enjoy it, you will meet someone, just be yourself and don't let it get you down....
.... things can only get better <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
Girls are manipulative, lying, slags.
I never want to have a gf now, i wnt to b single all my life now........
So how can i do that wifout hurting myself? Um how can i train myself to stop thinking about them, cause it does my head in and i dont want to be thinking about people who just arnt worth it.
teqniques?
THnx!!
I broke my phone. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
The second was older and a second year, and was having trouble with her bf, and always came to my room and we'd get drunk together. However, she was trying to hurt her bf (quite blatantly) so I enjoyed her company, but didnt sleep with her, so she slept with a guy in my house instead.
The third was all unsure of everything because of a previous relationship, and I got the too nice answer, etc, and then she pulled most of the college, in front of me, so I got the idea. Shes got a bf now, so shes obviously managed to get over everything.
The forth was a friend of a friend who lived far away, and she sort of just stayed in my room one night, and from then on, she stayed in my room instead of her friends. That lasted for a while, but she went on holiday for a month and a bit to various places with no contact, and after that, she decided that with her having finished her gap year, and having to study in uni etc, she wouldn't be able to stay with me. That was nice too.
But after a brief( or extended) period of getting very trashed, I always went back on course.
Girls are great and life would be fucking boring without them!
However, never give up something you like doing because of them, because there are always plenty more.
I avent seen a shread of proof that they are nice in my eyes. Until i do il always h8 them, and that will b 4eva im sure. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
O yea you never told me any teqs 4 learning to 4get girls, and not thinking about them. (dont say turn gay), (i want a proper way) dont say it cant be done cause i manged to block out my emotions 4 a long time ( i couldnt cry nemore). So sugestions, i just want girls out of my life, and to start to build a social life. I cant hack working wif 40 yo's nemore, im gonna run out of the door sooner or l8r.
It's one thing to make one comment in a moment of anger, but it's another thing to sustain it. Tone it down.
Bye bye bitches.
Karla: Ok, i went a bit mad, and im sorry. ban me if u want thoguh, it wont change anything.
Errr sorry but I can't believe you said that! How ungrateful can you get Justin typed out that looong post trying to give you advice and you call it a load of bullshit, I'm glad you're going you don't deserve anyones advice on here if you're gonna be like that.
i agree, and if he keeps that attitude he won't have any friends!
everyone hates a whiner.
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Johntrevy,i tried to help you before but you're an ungreatful twit.
there is nothing wrong with the girls i know they're all kind people.
you seem like a spoilt little brat.
Justin Credible tried to be as helpful and friendly as he could and you just threw it back in his face.
-w00t-
I got bulled EVERY DAY at school all the way through Junior and Secondary School and the last year of Infants. And I am not exaggerating this! (wish I was)
Not necessarily. I was depressed for the last 3 years of secondary, never saw a counsellor and I managed to get over it all by myself without anyone suspecting.
No girls at school liked me either. I hardly even spoke to them unless they were asking me for something or insulting me for no reason. Now I`ve got loads of female friends and had my first girlfriend. It didn`t work out and we went our separate ways, but thats just life.
I tend to think quite alot that there`s no one out there for me...but so what! I might aswell have some fun and she`ll probly just turn up when I`m least expecting it.
I know this is probly gonna sound harsh but you should really get over yourself. You`re not the only ones with problem. I`ve dealt with constantly wanting to commit suicide and also self-harm and constant bullying for most of my life. Add the last eight years in which I have seen my family torn apart, my three nieces put into adoption, I never see my 4 nephews and having to move several times because my parents couldn`t afford the mortgage on our old house after my dad got made redundant. I had to get a job to partially support myself as they could no longer afford to buy everything for me.
There is one simple fact that you should be aware of: LIFE IS HARD.
Some have it worse off than others but you`ve just got to get through it.
And not all girls are evil and manipulative. Yes, some of them are. But then so are some men. You can`t brand all women as evil, manipulative slags just cause you`ve had some bad experiences.
And have you actually tried just being friends with some girls? I find that is alot easier than trying to go out with them as the stress is taken off.
There are people who have it alot worse than you. I hate to get on my soapbox here but there are people who can`t even eat day to day, they`d die to have your life.
Get over it dude and move on, hating all women is just pointless and pathetic.
"Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
(((JOHN)))Not all girls are like that, trust me. I'd never do anything like that to anyone and so would a lot of other female users on thesite. If you ever want to chat, my hotmail is captain_spanner@hotmail.com or basketcase_sel_uk on yahoo.
take care,
love sel <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
So with one hand on the wheel
The other out the window
With a smile on my face
My middle finger up...
[This message has been edited by ~*LIBERTY*~ (edited 18-09-2001).]
[This message has been edited by ~*LIBERTY*~ (edited 18-09-2001).]
It wasnt me talking inside,wen i made the hurtful comments, its a v.depressed bitter person, and it gets harder to control as i get older cuase i know it aint getting better 4 me ( i really wish it ws so i could b happy), i wanna b young wen/if this good stuff hapens.
I mean the one from the site who waas lying to me was saying how she knows sum1 who got married 4 the first time at the age of 70, i dont want to end up like that.
Ive thought about all the things i sed bk then, and i realised what a fooool i was.
This is to the girls..............
Girls im sorry for insulting you all like that, i was basing my assumptions on bad experiences in xcess, tht wont stop eating away at me, just that girl from "the site" lied to me and it sent me a bit raging. If you all can find it in ur hearts to 4give me i would feel v.joyful and happy.
THnkyou
i Owe sum1 else an apology......... to justin credible
im really sorry i insulted ur advice, i looked at it now and i saw that it is the most useful and true advice sum1 can give, its the best advice ive had so far, and im really gr8full 4 u typing that all out 4 me.
you guys arent so hot either.
cant say the fairer half of the population is gonna be too gutted you're out of the running.
personally i dont care what you do with your life, or whether you choose to talk about it here.
this thread has just reinforced some of my reasons for leaving.
*goes back to being gone*
Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.
1 day u will meet a girl who will knock u dead and u will knock her dead 2 u just need 2 stop trying 2 dive in head first make friend s with some girls every relationship has 2 start somewhere right? hope this helps bye.