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can you love someone too much?
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i guess in the sense of unrequited love then yes.
I think also in the sense of investing (horrible word) yourself so much into one person can be harmful if the bottom falls out and they are no longer there (your whole life collapses). I have two freinds who are madly totally in love with each other, which is great and they are lovely people....BUT there has always been that question that if they ever split up; what would happen? scarey that no-one ventures to even guess.
But falling in love with someone isn't something you can control or avoid; much less how far you fall.
When love blinds reason that can be dangerous.
just something i'm pondering today.
I think the one great casualty of romantic fixations tends to be other freindships.
Malt x
when you become dependant, or obsesive, relient or over protective.....
when it will hurt you more than than them, if it were to go all pear.....
when it affects your chances of making rational discisons all the time....
when the love is not reciricated - thats when it hurts the most
Especially if you have had experience of lonliness, or have had alot of separation in your family