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Ok so i really need some advice-- i was in the pub on friday night, and met a friend of one of my mates. She was really cute and we were flirtin all nite, she kept tellin me about how i kinda look like will young, but better??? I asked if she fancied him, and she said no-- but i am better lookin
then i left my mates and walked her 2 the bus stop where i kissed her. Sat on the bus with my arm round her, then got of at her stop where we kissed for ages.
She told me to txt her the next day which i did-- she didnt txt back 4 ages, and was talkin about work-- obviously i could only think about 1 thing so asked if she was either very drunk, or if there was somethin there-- her response was 'HM, i dunno. I prob was q drunk but i had a realy good nite'. I saw this as a rejection so i said soz, but i just had 2 ask-- 2 which she replied 'that doesnt mean that i dont want 2 c u again! if ur free anytime after the exams giv me a txt xx'.
All i wanna know is if she is interested and shy, or tryin 2 let me down gently-- please try 2 shed some light to a novice at this stuff (oh yeah and friday nite she accused me of bein a player when i'm not, and she didnt believe me!) <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
[ 26-05-2002: Message edited by: KinkyWizard ]
then i left my mates and walked her 2 the bus stop where i kissed her. Sat on the bus with my arm round her, then got of at her stop where we kissed for ages.
She told me to txt her the next day which i did-- she didnt txt back 4 ages, and was talkin about work-- obviously i could only think about 1 thing so asked if she was either very drunk, or if there was somethin there-- her response was 'HM, i dunno. I prob was q drunk but i had a realy good nite'. I saw this as a rejection so i said soz, but i just had 2 ask-- 2 which she replied 'that doesnt mean that i dont want 2 c u again! if ur free anytime after the exams giv me a txt xx'.
All i wanna know is if she is interested and shy, or tryin 2 let me down gently-- please try 2 shed some light to a novice at this stuff (oh yeah and friday nite she accused me of bein a player when i'm not, and she didnt believe me!) <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
[ 26-05-2002: Message edited by: KinkyWizard ]
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hope that helps any.
I think you need to look no further than these texts. You asked her if she was very drunk, not if she regretted what happened - 2 completely different questions. And she replied that yes, she was very drunk, BUT she doesn't seem to regret it at all AND she said she wants to see you after the exams, signing off with a kiss. That seems pretty promising to me!! When do you finish?
I have to admit to being completely off my face when I met my boyfriend, and I think us getting together initially had rather a lot to do with the copious amounts of wine we were drinking. I can't honestly say that at the time I could have predicted that we'd last or even knew whether I'd see him again - apart from anything else it was near exam time of his final year - but here we are, over a year later. See - drunken pulls
can work and it looks that this might just be one of these instances! Go for it and good luck <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
GOOD LUCK <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
*DEVIL*
All the girls who send me txs add kisses at the end, its just a girly thing or every1 likes me (which i doubt)
So you have a face that looks as if it was set on fire and then put out with a pick axe???
Cheeky bitch if she said that to me, I would have slapped her. Will young is as ugly as sin <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
LOFuckingL <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Not as ugly as Lemmy, or me! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
"set on fire and put out with a pick axe" excellent!!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Ahh yes, but when it's to someone he's snogged, and she's told him she had a really great night, I think we can pretty safely say there was a bit of meaning behind that kiss.
It depends who you're sending the message to - I send kisses to my male and female best mates which are meant quite platonically (electronic pecks on the cheek?) but when they're to my boyfriend they mean something quite different! You have to look at the context, and remember that she's only just met him...so it would otherwise be a bit early for platonic text pecks.
If i were you, do what she says, text her every day or whatever you're comtforatble with and just say we'll meet up after the exams, that way she won't fail them!!!!!
Again i always send kisses on messages. To my mum, dad, brothers (sometimes) and emmmmm friends. the onyl time i don't is if a feel a male friend is taking it the wrong way.