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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok so i really need some advice-- i was in the pub on friday night, and met a friend of one of my mates. She was really cute and we were flirtin all nite, she kept tellin me about how i kinda look like will young, but better??? I asked if she fancied him, and she said no-- but i am better lookin

then i left my mates and walked her 2 the bus stop where i kissed her. Sat on the bus with my arm round her, then got of at her stop where we kissed for ages.

She told me to txt her the next day which i did-- she didnt txt back 4 ages, and was talkin about work-- obviously i could only think about 1 thing so asked if she was either very drunk, or if there was somethin there-- her response was 'HM, i dunno. I prob was q drunk but i had a realy good nite'. I saw this as a rejection so i said soz, but i just had 2 ask-- 2 which she replied 'that doesnt mean that i dont want 2 c u again! if ur free anytime after the exams giv me a txt xx'.

All i wanna know is if she is interested and shy, or tryin 2 let me down gently-- please try 2 shed some light to a novice at this stuff (oh yeah and friday nite she accused me of bein a player when i'm not, and she didnt believe me!) <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

[ 26-05-2002: Message edited by: KinkyWizard ]

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol, i think i c, im not 100% sure, but she liked it, but she wants a barrier up (drunkedness) if u say u dont want to continue it. Make ur feelings crystal clear - don't let her doubt what you are feeling, and in the end she can only say yes or no.(or she needs time <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ) girls just <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> me but what wud we do without them.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    true - its awkward though coz i'm gd mates with with people who are mates with her friends if u c wot i mean-- i hope that is the case, but if i balls it up, i could balls it all up-- then again maybe 2 late 4 that??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she might like you, but maybe she just doesnt want to jump straight into a relationship. try to get to know her a bit and talk to her about the way she feels.

    hope that helps any.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by KinkyWizard:
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    I asked if she was either very drunk, or if there was somethin there-- her response was 'HM, i dunno. I prob was q drunk but i had a realy good nite'. I saw this as a rejection so i said soz, but i just had 2 ask-- 2 which she replied 'that doesnt mean that i dont want 2 c u again! if ur free anytime after the exams giv me a txt xx'.
    </STRONG>

    I think you need to look no further than these texts. You asked her if she was very drunk, not if she regretted what happened - 2 completely different questions. And she replied that yes, she was very drunk, BUT she doesn't seem to regret it at all AND she said she wants to see you after the exams, signing off with a kiss. That seems pretty promising to me!! When do you finish?

    I have to admit to being completely off my face when I met my boyfriend, and I think us getting together initially had rather a lot to do with the copious amounts of wine we were drinking. I can't honestly say that at the time I could have predicted that we'd last or even knew whether I'd see him again - apart from anything else it was near exam time of his final year - but here we are, over a year later. See - drunken pulls
    can work and it looks that this might just be one of these instances! Go for it and good luck <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah- i'm just reluctant 2 tell her exactly how i fell coz that mite scare her?? dunno-- i'm not tryin 4 a hardcore relationship and i think she realises that-- just a bit of fun, and some1 2 chat 2 and take care of really-- (that and she's gorg <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> )
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cheerz guys, think i mite wait till her exams have finished (wednesday) then txt her and chat-- thnx 4 the help! <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    leading you on perhaps>?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think she probably enjoyed it. She has said that after the exams she may like to get back with you. i think she may be a little embarassed with the thought of this and she may be afraid to say how she feels. you have not exactly told her you really love her. you sound like a mate of mine who is afraid to say 'i love you' to some boy she fancies she may fel the same give her time im sure it will work out.

    GOOD LUCK <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    *DEVIL*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    She might just want to get to know the real you. If you both had a bit to drink then she could be thinking the same kind of thing about you. Meet up with her and see how it goes. She's interested in you so something good might come out of it. Even if you only end up as friends, would that be such a bad thing?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    signing off with a kiss. That seems pretty promising to me!!

    All the girls who send me txs add kisses at the end, its just a girly thing or every1 likes me (which i doubt)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    will young, but better???

    So you have a face that looks as if it was set on fire and then put out with a pick axe???

    Cheeky bitch if she said that to me, I would have slapped her. Will young is as ugly as sin <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wuckFit:
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    So you have a face that looks as if it was set on fire and then put out with a pick axe???

    Cheeky bitch if she said that to me, I would have slapped her. Will young is as ugly as sin <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    LOFuckingL <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Not as ugly as Lemmy, or me! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    "set on fire and put out with a pick axe" excellent!!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MattBomb:
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    All the girls who send me txs add kisses at the end, its just a girly thing or every1 likes me (which i doubt)</STRONG>

    Ahh yes, but when it's to someone he's snogged, and she's told him she had a really great night, I think we can pretty safely say there was a bit of meaning behind that kiss.

    It depends who you're sending the message to - I send kisses to my male and female best mates which are meant quite platonically (electronic pecks on the cheek?) but when they're to my boyfriend they mean something quite different! You have to look at the context, and remember that she's only just met him...so it would otherwise be a bit early for platonic text pecks.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I actually think she likes you, possibly she was just embarrased. Ive done that loads of times so you just palm it off on being drunk. Another thing with me is that i find people durign ym exams when i truely could do with revising not gettign ti on with someone.
    If i were you, do what she says, text her every day or whatever you're comtforatble with and just say we'll meet up after the exams, that way she won't fail them!!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MattBomb:
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    All the girls who send me txs add kisses at the end, its just a girly thing or every1 likes me (which i doubt)</STRONG>

    Again i always send kisses on messages. To my mum, dad, brothers (sometimes) and emmmmm friends. the onyl time i don't is if a feel a male friend is taking it the wrong way.
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