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he finishes to quickly

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
im having a problem with my bf. when we have sex its only for about 5 mins:mad: it really annoys me and i dont no how to go about this problem.

any sujestions :(

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You could try different positions as maybe whatever you are doing now is too sensitive for him?

    You could start again after he comes. He will take longer the second time.

    If you've not been having sex for long, then it might just be a passing thing.

    Or you could be happy that you get five minutes :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What about trying a cock ring? That keeps a man erection for long and I think it prevents him from coming too soon, I think.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    have you spoken to him about it?

    perhaps you could get him spend time on foreplay, especially on you so at least you will be satisfied.
    or like mist said, go again when he's cum.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sellotape this to your forehead:

    people5.jpg.jpg
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LMAO :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There's those condoms that are supposed to make them last longer isn't there? They're Durex ones but not sure what the nam eof them is. I'm sure someone here will know though :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah those Durex exist - they have some sort of numbing fluid in the tip or something.....

    the extra foreplay ideas are good.....

    what about continuing afterwards? so he cums? well dosn't mean the fun is over for you - he can still carry on pleasuring you with other parts of your body, or get some sex toys, and let him pleasure you with those - you are still having sex....

    and you never know - whilst all this is going on - he will be ready for more - and it allways last longer the second time!

    Good luck - have fun!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by funkyone
    and it allways last longer the second time!
    yep a whole 6 mins maybe :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    practice practice practice
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: he finishes to quickly
    Originally posted by sonny
    im having a problem with my bf. when we have sex its only for about 5 mins:mad: it really annoys me and i dont no how to go about this problem.

    any sujestions :(
    How about focusing the foreplay much more on you than on him. And only have him penetrate you when you are on the verge of coming anyway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here's a tip for you.

    when u think he's about to come but ur thumb and index finger on the base of his dick and sqeeze it gently. This will numb the feeling and drop the levl of cum in his dick...keep doing this until your happy!!
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    ClaireBearClaireBear Deactivated Posts: 467 Listening Ear
    Hiya,
    There may be some info in this article that could help.

    Good luck,
    CB
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah dont worry bout it lass, it happens to the best of us sometimes!!!
    Just let him shoot his load, then insist you go again 2 minutes later!

    When its happened to me i make sure we go again otherwise she'll spread rumours saying im crap in bed!!
    : )
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TomS
    Yeah dont worry bout it lass, it happens to the best of us sometimes!!!
    Just let him shoot his load, then insist you go again 2 minutes later!

    When its happened to me i make sure we go again otherwise she'll spread rumours saying im crap in bed!!
    : )
    If she's the kind of shallow person who would kiss'n'tell and spread nasty rumours about you why are you sleeping with her?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell him to have a wank a couple of hours beforehand ... that will slow him down
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    randomgirly - some people are very bitter!!! : ) x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry

    Hi Sonny,

    First of all do not worry, I know it may be hard at the moment.
    When I started to be sexual active, by first bf was real crap in bed, or where ver we did it:naughty:
    It was all over and done in 60 secs or les:eek:
    One nite was chatting to my big sister and she told me to give him head make him cum, and then get all lovey , cuddle, heavy foreplay, get him hard again, and start over, after practice he was able to go 20 mins:D

    So my advice chill, have fun, heavy foreplay, make him cum then start having sex.

    Love
    Sarah
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Now this girl knows what she's talking about!!!!!
    take it as gospel!!!
    Sarah, give me your number!!

    : )
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TomS
    Sarah, give me your number!!

    o dear:rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Don't worry
    Originally posted by sarahH
    One nite was chatting to my big sister and

    it scares me that people talk to family about their premature ejaculation problems
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Don't worry
    Originally posted by Blah_x2
    it scares me that people talk to family about their premature ejaculation problems

    i second that, but the person who posted that was female, making it a bit less strange.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by freak
    o dear:rolleyes:


    I think he was joking..?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Don't worry
    Originally posted by Blah_x2
    it scares me that people talk to family about their premature ejaculation problems

    wasnt she talking to her sister about her boyfriend? i dont think thats weird, some sisters have strong friendships...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks Clara,

    Yes I was talking to my sister, what is wrong in that? I was asking her what I was doing wrong , if anything, and she gave me some tips, sorry but can see nothing wrong in that.

    Love
    Sarah
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