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umm, this is my 1st post so bear wiv me! Wat do u do wen ur boyf and ur best m8s dont get on!My m8s slag off my boyf wen his not around and my boyf slags off my m8s wen they'r not around! This is really getting me down as i love my boyf alot, but my m8s mean so much 2 me aswell! I dont know wat 2 do! Im also scared that he will cheat as he has done it b4 not on me but on his ex's, 1 of which is my best m8s! He sed he wouldnt, but how do i know if i can trust him! i want 2 be able 2! Sory if it doesnt make sense! HELP <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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Maybe that has something too with the fact that keyboards are designed for English, not txt language <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
They are each showing unreasonable jealousy towards the time you spend with the other. That shows they are far more concerned about themselves and how they feel, than about you and your happiness.
That only goes to show that your mates are not true friends, and the same goes for your boyfriend.
Any decent friend would be glad to see you having fun and more friends. They don't, and that proves that none of them are truly your friends at all.
No offense, but you are more likely to permamently break up with your boyfriend than your friends. If you drop your friends in favour of your boyfriend then when your relationship with him ends, who will you turn to?
However, I agree with Black Knight, as both parties are behaving appallingly.
Try talking to your boyfriend about how it hurts you when he slags off your friends and vice versa.
Good luck!