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What makes girls happy?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi everyone, kind of new around here, so please, girls, tell me what makes you happy in a relationship? preferably anyone above the age of 18 should answer this, thats not being ageist, just that I want a viewpoint from that age-group.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    being with sum1 who we can trust and rely on, who we can talk to about anything and someone who can make us laugh.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    shazza's got it down 2 a T.
    they need 2 b ur best mate aswell as ur bloke, able 2 share everything(within reason!)
    if they say they'll never cheat- they never cheat!
    if they say they'll call-they call, on time, if not they have a damn good excuse(joke-TRUST)
    sum 1 who'll b there no matter wot
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    yeah everything thats already been said. you need to feel that they still love you adn think about you loads, and show it by sending text messages, emails, phone calls, etc. and when they say theyll call and they dont, thats REALLY infuriating and makes you feel unwanted, unloved, etc.

    you need them to make you feel special, like you're the only person they want to be with.. like they just want to talk to you or spemnd time with you above everything else. they need to understand you and to listen to you and try and give advice and not be patronising or make fun of your problems.. they need to make you laugh, have some common interests, a similar way looking at life as you, etc. and the whole not cheating thing too.

    oh you know.

    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I'm 17...but anyway...
    I like a guy with a good sense of humour who gives me lots of hugs. He's gotta be there for me to talk to as well and to like me for what I am, not for what I look like or whatever.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK, i'm out of the target age range <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">, but relationships are a 2 way thing.

    She can't want this, that and the other all the time .... she has to give into the relationship as well.

    There's nasty girls out there as well as nasty blokes .... and those are the want want, gimmee gimmee sorta girls.

    OK .. i strayed off the subject a bit but i'm just letting you see it from the blokes POV <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If at first you don't succeed, destroy all evidence that you tried.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not 18 but still know wot makes me happy!

    everything thats bin said really!

    some1 who i can totally rely on some 1 who makes a fuss of me if they say they love me
    they show it!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    18 soon...so here goes...

    every girl is different in what she wants from a guy. if u ask me, i can go on forever and give u one good list!

    but down to reality, all i want is someone that's honest and loyal to me and someone i can trust. be there when i need them and someone i can talk to and have a laugh with. be able to be completely comfortable in each other's company.

    not much....until u realise how hard it really is to find someone like that. u guys have gotta work harder!!!

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    life is like a dick, when it's hard, FUCK IT!
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