love @ first sight?

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Hi!
Im just wondering if this has ever actually happened to anyone? I think its happened to me but im wondering if its too good to be true?!?! I only started txtin him last week but i really like him, even love him!
If anyone else has had experiences like this please be a star and let me know!!
Thanx peeps! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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*this kylie song is spinning my head now*

yeah this happened to me too, a few times, i found places like clubs make people easy to fall in love with strangers, probably cos the music?

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Lust at first sight. Happens all the time. Love is something deeper.

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Originally posted by Scarlett:
<STRONG>Lust at first sight. Happens all the time. Love is something deeper.</STRONG>

if there is no lust there wont be love.

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in my opinion you cant fall in love at first sight coz its one of those things that comes from deep down over a period of time + not instantly. Im not saying though you cant have strong feelings for someone really quickly coz u can but strong feelings are totally different to love, so thats prob what uve got!

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Doesn't exist. You fancy him. See how he feels first and maybe you can get it together?

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Originally posted by Nice Kick:
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if there is no lust there wont be love.</STRONG>

Wrong. Unless you go to clubs to find women. In that scenario, lust will attract you to a person, and perhaps if you get to know them better (not in a club--how can you ever "get to know" someone in a club??), perhaps love will come later.

You can meet someone and not lust after them, though you may find them attractive. It is possible to admit that someone is attractive without lusting after them.

Usually, it's after you've gotten to know a person that you fall in love with them. And being in love makes a person even more attractive. Hence, love does not derive from lust. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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yeh its lust girls not love

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i would agree, i have been with my boyfriend for a year next week, and have finally reached a stage where i can say i love him, i said it before mayb at 5 or 6 months but later on you feel somethign deeper, so now when i say i love him i still mean it but the love has been taken to a deeper stage so it feels more real.
Love isnt a purely physical thing, in actual fact little of love is based on looks, so how can u fall in love at first sight. i never experienced it so mayb im slightly pesimistic,
Wait for the stronger feelings which come with time.

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it seems like it, but it doesnt exist. you'll only break up 5 months later.

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Sounds like a classic case of lust to me! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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Well what ever it is, it making you happy and thats all that matters, I've not find love at all yet, and i don't think love at first sight is real

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i will believe it when it happens. i have been with my boyfriend 11 months. i have loved him for 10 months. i never realised i loved him until we had been with each other for sometime. i knew him personally for 4 months before we started going out he used to be a little nasty (he fancied me) i never knew it was because he was flirting although i tried to flirt back. a month before we started goin out i thought i was in love it wasnt it was lust i fancied the pants off him <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> i said to my mate everyday how id love to go out with him but had no chance as he didnt love me.

29th of june we started going out as he knew id be out that night he had it planned for weeks. although he did everything to make me happy i did not care the way i do now for him until i knew him in a more personal way. I had to get to know him in a different way to feel a strong attraction to him. I now love him. But i do not believe in love at first sight. i love his personallity as much as looks. personallity is more important you cant love someone who is gorgeous but a total bitch/pig or arrogant. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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yeah i believe in lust at first site it takes a bit longer for the love to come but once it does believe me you'll know, the lust shit happened to me this very weekend <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> n feels great!get ya self in there 4 sum sweet lurvin!

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Well..the first time I saw mah baby there was just somethin about him...I dunno..maybe I'm just saying that now because I'm deeply in love w/ him...but who cares, I love him <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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yeah i have to say when i met my ex there was just something about him, usually it takes a while for me to feel an attraction but i saw him and thought, i have to have him!

*sobs*

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I don't believe that the first time you see somebody you can love them, but after being together for a month i think it can happen. It happened with my ex and me. I think you can have really strong feelings for somebody the first time you see them though. we are still in love but the relationship didn't work. It was way too difficult. Were hopeing to get together soon. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> So i don't believe in first sight but i do believe in a short space of time.