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Ok, where to start...
I have this friend, she is female and away at uni, i am fairly close friends with her and we talk and text all the time, over the phone, on the net etc.. and we give each other advice and things. Well she has asked me for some help on a situation but unfortunately i have no idea what to suggest to her now.
Her problem is this:
She is away at university and has really fallen for a guy there in a big way. she talks about him all the time and thinks about him all the time. She has told me that sometimes he seems interested in her, yet others he ignores her. One of the problems is that he belongs to some sort of packed type thing that goes on at the uni, (a tie or something <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ). She has asked me as a bloke what i reckon the problem is, my friend is not unattractive, infact she is the opposite, she is highly attractive and really cool to be around. She always knows what to say to make you laugh etc.
This lad she likes over the past couple of weeks has been going up to her room and sitting with her while she has been doing work, and they have talked for a couple of hours at a time. I have told her to tell him that she is interested, but she is scaed of being rejected. The bloke is not gay i dont think, as he has slept with a few lasses since he has been at uni. I know she doesnt want him to be a one night stand cos i think she as just about fallen in love with him. But i also dont want her to get hurt by him!
I hav offerred a couple of ideas on how to get him to tell her how he feels, but the way i see it, he is going to see her quite a bit and talking to her lots, he does know she is interested as one drunken night she told him., (he doesnt drink and so remembers everything), and it is tormenting her that she hasnt got together with him at all yet!
I could do with knowing if anyone has any ideas about suggestions i could give her, like what to do, what to say etc.... I am reading the signs right aren't i? he is interested? or else why would he go to her room?
Thanks in advance for and advice given.
[ 25-05-2002: Message edited by: Eddie_Hitler ]
I have this friend, she is female and away at uni, i am fairly close friends with her and we talk and text all the time, over the phone, on the net etc.. and we give each other advice and things. Well she has asked me for some help on a situation but unfortunately i have no idea what to suggest to her now.
Her problem is this:
She is away at university and has really fallen for a guy there in a big way. she talks about him all the time and thinks about him all the time. She has told me that sometimes he seems interested in her, yet others he ignores her. One of the problems is that he belongs to some sort of packed type thing that goes on at the uni, (a tie or something <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ). She has asked me as a bloke what i reckon the problem is, my friend is not unattractive, infact she is the opposite, she is highly attractive and really cool to be around. She always knows what to say to make you laugh etc.
This lad she likes over the past couple of weeks has been going up to her room and sitting with her while she has been doing work, and they have talked for a couple of hours at a time. I have told her to tell him that she is interested, but she is scaed of being rejected. The bloke is not gay i dont think, as he has slept with a few lasses since he has been at uni. I know she doesnt want him to be a one night stand cos i think she as just about fallen in love with him. But i also dont want her to get hurt by him!
I hav offerred a couple of ideas on how to get him to tell her how he feels, but the way i see it, he is going to see her quite a bit and talking to her lots, he does know she is interested as one drunken night she told him., (he doesnt drink and so remembers everything), and it is tormenting her that she hasnt got together with him at all yet!
I could do with knowing if anyone has any ideas about suggestions i could give her, like what to do, what to say etc.... I am reading the signs right aren't i? he is interested? or else why would he go to her room?
Thanks in advance for and advice given.
[ 25-05-2002: Message edited by: Eddie_Hitler ]
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