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my boyfriends gone on holiday with his best mate and i cant help but think that hes gonna cheat on me, hes says he wouldnt but wen we split up in the past he slept with someone on that night and then started seeing me again behind his new girlfriends back
now im back with him its put doubt in my mind, i know he wouldnt cheat on me while he was at home but in a different country im not so sure
what do you think?
now im back with him its put doubt in my mind, i know he wouldnt cheat on me while he was at home but in a different country im not so sure
what do you think?
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he slept with another girl aswell behind his exs back.
i do trust him totally when hes here but for some reason theres doubt in my mind while hes away especially as hes with his best mate whose not the faithful type.
xx
no she eeds to tlk to him, cause its clear she dont trust him so he needs to reassure her
He sounds lke a rite selfish ****
but, people can change...and to be together, you have to learn to trust him.
Which part of don't use txt spk do you find difficult to comprehend?
Essentially you will simply have to trust him- if you don't trust him you will have to leave him, so any possibility in his actions are removed.
i have the feeling she hasnt and he's noticed somethings up, and fink shes off with him which leads down a really dodgy road
just talk to the guy! *from a guy fed up of stupid hints, just come out with it*
i dont know what to think, what would u think if it was you?
In a normal situation (without those added complications) I would say that you have to be very careful about continually trying to talk to him and get reassurance. Nobody likes to be pestered all the time by their partner - and sometimes it can end a relationship.
In this situation, knowing what you do, you really do need to get him to be clear about his feelings toward you, and you have to guard yourself against being shat on from a great height. Trust is a difficult thing. Even the most trusting can be hurt in love. You have to have faith in him, but its a hard place to reach.
In all honesty if there is nothing else suspicious about your relationship (While he's around and not on Holiday) then you should feel confident that he is what he says he is. But if there are other things going on that add to your suspicions then beware.
A small amount of posessiveness is healthy but sometimes it can go too far.
If i were you just see how it goes when he comes back off his hols. At the end of the day you'll just have to trust his word. If you find out he has cheated then get rid as he'll have completely disrespected you as he obviously realises that you find the cheating aspect upsetting.
My bloke's away on his holiday with his mates on the 7th of June for two weeks! :nervous:
He and I got together through cheating on his girlfriend with ME! Argh. However, his mates all have girlfriends, the football's on.
That's all that's keeping me sane at the moment. I know how many times he's ignored me when I've wanted a kiss or summat when Celtic's on or whatever.
I'm thinking he'll be more inclined to do so with a scantily clad tart. He LOVES his football. Any football, fuck his PC game of Champion's League makes him squeal like a woman.
Plus, he's more happy with me than he was with his ex. But I'm still going to have it out with him. I'm just a bit paranoid is all, he's really goodlooking, however shite at chatting up. I'm just fussing. Argh.
what would you do in his shoes?
its not like hes even doing it to hurt you, same as you wouldnt want to hurt him if you cheated.
at the end of the day, if the cats away the mouse will play, so go on, get ur ball of string out and have a nice game of 'catch the ball of string' i hear its a lot of fun.