confused gal!??(updated 26th)

Former Member

well,
i have been c-ing this boy for about a month and a couple of weeks now who i met on holiday at easter and he lives about 10 mins downs the road from me i have met up with him about 3 times and we txt each other all the time, i thought we were getting on really well,
when last night he text me saying "hi i think we should just be friends because we never see each other and if we see each other more then we can take it from there"

so i thought it was his way of basically saying i dont like you and i was a bit pissed off but then about 10minutes later he says hes going on holiday tomorrow (today) so do i want to meet up with him when he gets back on bank holiday monday???

asnd now im really confused about what he is trying to say to me??? can anyone help me out here and tell me what he means by all this thanx for anyone who replys luv **sugar**xxx <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

[ 26-05-2002: Message edited by: **sugar** ]

Former Member

Why can't you just see him more if he lives so nearby?

Former Member

because he has college all week and i have school and then we both work at the weekends so we only get to see each other some saturday nights so we try and see each other when we have spare time

[ 24-05-2002: Message edited by: **sugar** ]

Former Member

He probably means, 'im going on holiday and wana get on other people without cheating on you'. Although i could be very wrong.

Former Member

yeah, he it sounds as though he doesnt want a girlfreind when on holiday so he wont feel guilty if he meets someone else, then wants to meet up with you when he gets back cos then his holiday will be over so he can have a girlfriend again, if that makes sense. basically what NeoNero said!

Former Member

Originally posted by **sugar**:
<STRONG>c-ing </STRONG>

*claps*

Well done, you saved a total of one letter. This makes you officially among the 95% of the population who unquestioningly follow "popular" culture, without a thought for logic or purpose.

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Serious. Guys a wank. Leave it. You'll live.

Former Member

well thanx for the advise everyone you have made me feel a bit better about the whole situation.
and sorry turtle i just always write like that but i am trying not to text talk!!!

thanx again luv **sugar**

Former Member

hi everyone

well as you may or may not know i was seeing this boy etc....(see top of page for full story)

well he is on holiday at the moment and i havent spoke to him since we finished on friday.
its just i spoke to my best mate about 10minutes ago and she said that he text her last night saying "alright ***** its well good here on holiday i have been clubing every night etc......" and she said it was as if he was trying show off about it or rub it in her face.

and now im really confused because where as before he would text me all the time even when we wernt seeing each other but now we have split he texts my mate.

i now feel as if he never liked me at all the whole 2 months we were seeing each other and maybe he likes my mate???

im sorry if this sounds a bit pathetic its just it hurts to think he doesnt think about me and he thinks about her instead and im really confused about what is going on in his head at the moment <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

or could it be just that he feels weird texting or ringing me now we aint together anymore??

anyway i hope someone can help me out here thanx to anyone who replys luv **sugar**
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[ 26-05-2002: Message edited by: **sugar** ]