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Would you forgive sum1 if...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
...they cheated on you?
im not sure if i would-i suppose it depends how much i liked them and how sorry they were! Quite a lot of people would not forgive a partner who cheated on them but some people believe every1 makes mistakes...
What are your views? xXx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nope, i couldnt. once the trust has gone, whats the point?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not a chance!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No trust, no point.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm gonna give my girlfriend one last chance. I'm mad I know.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dont bother i gave my b/f i last chance n he js used it and did it again once the trust has gone it will all fall apart!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ilson-Youth:
    <STRONG>No, but id get my revenge on the slag first, like persuadeing her to let me do her up the arse as a sorry present.

    Then id slip on my rubber, cover it in deepheat (let her think its some lube, which it kinda will be <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> )

    then bugger her thoughtlessly rough, and let the burning take over

    [ 24-05-2002: Message edited by: Ilson-Youth ]</STRONG>

    *is really disturbed!* <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ilson-Youth:
    <STRONG>No, but id get my revenge on the slag first, like persuadeing her to let me do her up the arse as a sorry present.

    Then id slip on my rubber, cover it in deepheat (let her think its some lube, which it kinda will be <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> )

    then bugger her thoughtlessly rough, and let the burning take over

    [ 24-05-2002: Message edited by: Ilson-Youth ]</STRONG>

    I feel sick, i hope youre joking. no matter what someone had done, thats sick
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well Statistics say that 85% of women forgive their married husband for having an affair and 40% of husbands forgive their wives for having an affair.

    Dont blame me, blame the facts <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When one of my ex's slept with someone else i forgave him (so he thought). He had slept with someone i dis-liked and 2 years younger than me (not even legal). So i got my revenge and slept with his best mate. Revenge is so sweet.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nope, if a guy cheated on me I wouldn't be able to forgive him or trust him again. Without trust there is no point in a relationship.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I could maybe if she gave me a reason why, But only once!!

    My Mum forgave my Dad for cheating on her, strange how its easy to say you wouldn't forgive them now but if its someone you love its hard to let them out of your life.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it would depend on the circumstances but in most instances I would say No, I could never forgive someone who cheat on me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well Statistics say that 85% of women forgive their married husband for having an affair and 40% of husbands forgive their wives for having an affair.
    Dont blame me, blame the facts
    really? ooh-onder why that is? maybe its bcoz women become more attatched to pple so find it harder to let them go!

    [ 24-05-2002: Message edited by: Sunny_L85 ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No way. Done it before & he just did the same again. Once the trust is lost you're done for.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think i could ever 4give sum1 that 2timed me whether i luvd em or not. if they luv u they wouldn't do it in the first place. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think that if they cheat on you with someone else they obviously don't care for you 100%...

    Sod them, they ain't worth it! <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it is hard just to give and forget. Most people say if they have done it once then they will do it again, if your boyfriend or girldfriend has cheated it's hard to get that trust back so personally I think if you did try to forget about it because it was a 'mistake' the relationship still would never be as good as it was and won't last long.

    xxx <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Of course I could, it would depend on the circumstances.....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it is hard just to give and forget

    <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    And no to the question <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldnt forgive anyone for cheating, if you do your just setting yourself up for more heartache.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nope, definitely not. if they were tempted once, what's to say that they wouldn't do it again? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It really depends on the person and situation! If i knew he loved me and i loved him i could probably forgive b'cause love conquers everything- but thats just in my opinion! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    never cause they took advantage of your trust and thought they would get away with it. once a cheater, always a cheater
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think if i really loved the person, id be more upset splitting up with them than if theyd cheated on me so yes, id have to forgive them.

    although if was something that they did on a regular basis, or more than once then i wouldnt.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmm... think it depends on the circumstances actually.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would never be able to forgive, I'm sorry but the thought of the woman I love in a bed with some bloke doing what only we should do would disgust me, It would show that she does not feel the same way about me. You cannot cheat on someone you really love, If you do cheat on your partner, you are not in love with them.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i could forgive but i could not forget this would always be on my mind therefore i dont think the relationship would last much longer after it. the subject would always be brought up and i dont feel i could let him out of my sight (not the way a relationship should be)
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