ex boyfriend

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my and my ex of 5 months broke up about 2 weeks ago. we had a heated argument then we talked alone. but then we didnt talk for a week. we got into a fight at the bus stop and he called me a slut so i slapped him. so then again we didnt talk for about a week and a half. about 5 days ago we started talking again, and even though im in a new relationship and im happy, im getting feelings for him again. im upset because he's talking to this girl i really hate and she knows i wanna fight her for messing up our relationship(she supposedly has a boyfriend and doesnt like my ex). i dunno what i should do cause i know he doesnt have those feelings for me anymore, and i wanna get back together with him.

Former Member

It's Question Time!

1. Why do you want to get back together with your ex if you're in a new relationship and you're happy?

2. Did you break up with him because of the argument and because he called you a slut?

3. If yes, how did this other girl mess up your relationship?

4. Why would she want to mess up your relationship?

Former Member

Originally posted by Scarlett:
<STRONG>It's Question Time!

1. Why do you want to get back together with your ex if you're in a new relationship and you're happy?

2. Did you break up with him because of the argument and because he called you a slut?

3. If yes, how did this other girl mess up your relationship?

4. Why would she want to mess up your relationship?</STRONG>

answers:

My new guy treats me well, but it just isnt the same without my ex. i obviously still have feelings for him.

I got dumped and didn't get a chance to repair the relationship because he didnt tell me anyhting until it was too late, and he called me a slut after we were already over.

britney, this lil bytch im talking about, started talking to him the day after he dumped me, and she was messing up my chances of getting back with him by flirting with him. so i showed up at her bus stop the next day but she got all scared and told the vice principal 3rd period, which made me wanna beat the crap outta her even more.

i dunno why she would try to mess it up, she claimed she didnt like him and already had a boyfriend, but she is always talking to my ex and flirting with him, and it pisses me off.

Former Member

Sounds to me like you just want him, 'cause someone (almost) has him

Former Member

its not just someone its a certain someone...yes i still like him a lot....oh well if they hook up, she'll see what an ass he can be! she can get hurt, but not by me, by him.

i just made a good point, i dunno why i still want him after all the crap he put me through.....

Former Member

Depends on how long you were with your ex, but any new guy you're going to be with isn't going to be "like it was with your ex". It takes time to build up friendship, intimacy and memories. I can understand that your ex is what you are used to, so it would be a safety net even though you know he can treat you like crap.

My advice is move on. He treated you like shit, and now you have someone who treats you better. Why not give him a chance? And if you don't think you can do that, you should let him go, because he deserves to be loved too.

Former Member

sadly, you've got to face up to the facts that he no longer has feelings for you. Just remember the gud times you had together and if youre happy in ure new relationship dont let these feelings stop u being happy. I know its piss annoying to have feelings for someone when they dont for you, but eventually they will go, and of course seeing as you were together for so long, the feelings arent going to go away over night! hope everything works out ok in the end <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">!