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It it just me???

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships

Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
ive got this problem, and i dont know what to do anymore!
Right, when me and my long term boyfriend broke up, i was scared to go out and..be with anyone else sexually as he was my 1st and i was his! Recently i asked how many people he had slept with in the time that we were apart! He reply you'd just hate me if i told you, then said its you i loved and thinking off! I said well if you loved my why do it? He then replyed.....i get urges sometimes, that was it.....i mean we live...300 miles apart i love him with everything, but how do i know when he gets an urge he aint out there doing it!I used to trust him, no im not sure! And im scared to sleep with him now just incase im not up to...his usual ride! I heard off some good positions i wanted to try....he replyed oh yeah,that one was good! Now, i aint doing them with him, coz if i dont know what im doing he'll have to think off the other girl(s) he done it with! Should i be felling like this or, am i just bein horrible towards him? Hes told me im the only one its meant something to him, in a way thats true, but i dont know anymore! and im not going to lose him not again! HELP ME OUT PLZ <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
Love Miss_Kxxxxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You CAN NOT be in a relationship with someone that you dont trust. Hun, believe me, if you have any doubt that hes doing the dirty on you every time he gets the "urge" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; you deserve WAY better! Dont let him walk all over you, xx
    **Tell me that you dont take that blade and drag it across ur skin and pray for the courage to press down...**
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah, basically he's a guy. and cos he's a guy, ur gonna find that he's probably quite into sex.

    bad luck. turn lesbian.
    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Thanx, no! We were apart when he done this, he said he still loved me..but mmm, dont think so! I took him back, i know he wont cheat on me, coz he phones.....what atleast every 2nd hr! Its just not the same no more between us! I love him and dont want to risk losing him again but i dont know what to say to him!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    [QOTE]Originally posted by Turtle:


    bad luck. turn lesbian.

    [/QUOTE]

    I wish you'd told me that about four weeks ago!

    Dammit, the answer was there all there time!!

    *lol*

    Sorry, no offence to any genuine lesbians <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    *|* Chica *|*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    I hate it when that happens!

    Never quoting again.
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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    isnt it fucking annoying cause you just dont know?sorry ....anyway....have u like sat down and told him your pissed with him the things hes done and his attitude?personally probably not the best thing to do, but if i was on a 'brake ' with him as such i admit id probably go and sleep with someone else...hold on now im not sure ooh...um talk to him sorry to be a pain!!!i tried!!!
    when its cold outside, well then so am i...
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