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Shyness

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok this is a wierd situation...
I have liked this girl for ages and i went out with her a while back, we split up because we never talked and after that we never spoke up until friday (10 months all together). I wanna know how to overcome this because im going back out with her.
Gav

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    erm...how can u be going out with someone who doesn't talk to you???

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well we used to be good friends and thats why we both like each other so much. We often chat through text messages plz note SHE IS NOT AN INTERNET GIRLFRIEND!!
    and we also speak on Messengers etc
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Snoop*Frogg:
    plz note SHE IS NOT AN INTERNET GIRLFRIEND!!

    and is there something wrong with internet girlfriends?

    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think he ment there's anything wrong with internet relationships, he just didn't want advice about it, cos it wouldn't have been any use to him.

    Snoop*Frogg if you can talk to her through text message and on Messengers, then I don't see why you can't talk to her face. I know it's easier to type a message for someone (you can always check what you've put to see if sounds daft) but you've got to just talk to her. If you say something stupid then you say something stupid, there's nothing you can do about it.

    Just talk to her.

    I used to fly like Peter Pan
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, i think internet couples are pretty sad hehe
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is your inability to talk to your girlfriend linked with your solvent abused?

    I used to fly like Peter Pan
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you sure? If you're abusing solvents then you can't be yourself all the time.

    If you talk to her mainly though messenger, are you using solvents while talking to her?

    You might need some help with your solvent problem before adressing your other problem.

    I used to fly like Peter Pan

    [This message has been edited by jeffrey (edited 10-05-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Snoop*Frogg:
    Yeah, i think internet couples are pretty sad hehe

    hehe fuck u too wanker.

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    well thats the last advice i give you then, sad indeed! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Right Mate!!!!:
    1. I thought internet couple were "sad" until i realised how happy some ppl on here obviously are.

    2. I know the feeling about no being able to talk. As some ppl know i had a problem with a male friend... We'd talk like mad on hear but in face it's was always well quiet...lol, we'd be ok but i think it was both are friends who separated us (seeming my mate is his ex kinda but their r/s was the same as u and this g/g...lasted 3 days if THAT then she spent a week avoiding him)

    I don't know if that helps at all...... but if u wanna chat about it anytime, leave me a note or something and i'll add u to my MSN or YAHOO (p.s. THEY'RE AROUND ON HERE SOMEWHERE)
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