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What do i do? im worried

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
well my girlfriend is being very distant from me, and she aint replying my txts. i sent her one last night saying after i had seen her that she was being very distant. she replied saying yeh i noticed it to, but im sure we'll be ok. no love u or nothin, and she always puts that. things have been tense the whole w/k. is this gonna be me being dumped? on friday we got on great, so i dont understand, maybe i should give her time. but if she noticed we were distant, why cant she just talk to me she wont even talk to me about it! im just dont wanna lose her, but i guess my time is up. im gonna go and cry now, well actually maybe not.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A similar thing happened to me last weekend. Me and my b/f had, had a really crap week and last sunday he kept texting me saying that things were wierd between us and that i seemed distant. I noticed things were wierd but not the fact that i was any different. we were both having bad weekends at home and were taking it out on each other i guess. We decided to go on a break till after the exams and at first i was ok about it, then on the tuesday i was like an emotional wreck, we met up and talked bout our problems and that really helped. Being apart made us both realise how much we meant to each other and that we would sooner be together than alone. This probably isnt helping ypu but my suggestion would be to talk to ur g/f and see if she wants time out or whatever. Are you going through exams or nethin cos i am and the pressure of college was making our r'ship even harder. Hopefully the summer will be great <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeh we do have exams, which i guess contributes to the problem, thing is i wont see her for the whole of july cause im on holiday, i dont wanna go, but i guess i have to, i want to see her, so im scared we might split up then or maybe we will realise how much we miss eachother! maybe i should suggest a break, although personally i know that we both could npt handle that, as we go to the same school its hard.
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