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OK, crap. Great. Bloody wonderful. Here's what happened, like 20 minutes ago. I was walking home from a friend's place (yes, it was Michelle The Stomper, can it and cope already) and you have to take this dodgy alley between roads unless you want to pass by Satan's. I chose the alley. Big mistake. Satan was down there, smoking. It was really dark but I could see it was him, so I ran back. The tosser caught up with me, grabbed hold of me and kissed me. I couldn't exactly stop him. I finally managed to knee him you-know-where (don't you anti-violence people say I wasn't justified) but that didn't really help, he kept hold me but he was angrier. I was trying to fight him off but it didn't work. I was screaming and everything, and then I asked him what the hell it was he wanted, and he said "YOU."
I really thought he was going to force me to have sex with him or something. I started screaming he was evil, and he shouted that he loved me. We had a big arguement, and he said that's why he'd blackmailed me and had kept following me about. I called him a liar and then he tried to kiss me again but I kicked him and ran off. What the hell am I supposed to do?? Paul is going to hate me if I tell him, and I can hardly tell my mum. HELP HELP HELP <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"> I honestly think I'm insane. This is not fair. Help please.
I really thought he was going to force me to have sex with him or something. I started screaming he was evil, and he shouted that he loved me. We had a big arguement, and he said that's why he'd blackmailed me and had kept following me about. I called him a liar and then he tried to kiss me again but I kicked him and ran off. What the hell am I supposed to do?? Paul is going to hate me if I tell him, and I can hardly tell my mum. HELP HELP HELP <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"> I honestly think I'm insane. This is not fair. Help please.
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Call the police. That's gotta be something illegal there. It really is that bad, and they have the power to do something. It's the only advice I can offer you. Satan obviously isn't getting the message.
b) tell paul so he decks him
c) stab him urself, i would have
DM
You gotta tell the police hon.......
As for mace, dont think about it, the only people in the UK allowed to use it are the police, and even then if they really need to. I think you only want to hurt him where it hurts, not blind the bastard. Goto the police first and ask them for advice, dont get them racing round to his house with sirens blazing just yet. Find out where you stand and see if you can get a restraining order put on him, banning him from being within 1/2 km near you or something similar. Then be honest with your bf, but tell him not to deck him, if he does it will be him and not satan standing before a judge, because I doubt satan has any qualms about reporting him, do you? I hope this helps, but most importantly, DONT lose your head and think about what MIGHT have happened, i doubt satan will force you to have sex now. Remember, even though everyone hates them, the police can and will help you, I should know, my dad is one of them! hope it gets sorted
luv whowherex
I think that Whowhere has the best suggestion, go for a restraining order. It would also be a good idea to keep a diary of events like this, just incase you ever need to take it any further with the law.
If you report the incident to the police at least it will be "on record". Write in your diary the date, time & name of the officer who takes the report, as well as the date time & location of EVERY event, no matter how small.
Did you tell your mum what happened? I can't believe she'd still be on his side if she knew! (Unless if course she fancies him (JOKE)).
Don't forget, we're with you Chica.
{{{{Chica}}}}
j9
PS, one day you can write your life story & it will be a best seller <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
your whole story sounds terrible! how does that satan bloke get away with it? and how can your mum think hes really nice? she must be just ignoring how he really is or something coz shes mad about the step bro thing. and anyway, you met him first! but yeah i def think you should report satan to the police about this, and mention the blackmail and everything too. good idea of J9s too with the diary actually. good luck, hope satan dies soon!
I reckon you should go talk to the police, see whether you can have him charged with assault, and talk to them about getting a restraining order like everyone says.
Could you go and stay with friends / relatives for a few days so Satan can't find you and your parents can't crap on you?
1st) that guy is a dick and he deserves to be hung up from his crown jewels and have salt and vinegar poured into a little incision you make in his penis!
2nd) Im doing Law A-Level, and you have got to do something, I could probably get you some numbers if you like, it all depends, I can help if you want me to if not, then Its still here, good luck.
S 2 H
1 Life= 1 shot
if nothing else, make it a good one for yourself!
Satan wants something, I thought it might just be to piss Paul off, but they used to be mates, and apart from the fact they've had trouble over me and Paul has thumped him a couple of times, he doesn't have anything against him. My mum keeps telling me what a sweet boy he must be to send me flowers and everything, ignoring the fact he tried to blackmail me to sleep with him. J9, the two of them deserve each other! I just can't work out what he's playing at, why he's spending all this cash and time. He's up to something, and that's what really worries me. Thanz anyway folks, it's nice to know you're here <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
But never mind that, for fucks sake he chased you and made you kiss him! That's definitely assault and if he tries anything else tell him that and tell him you've got friends who want to go to the police NOW! Blokes get away with a lot (inc. rape sometimes) by making girls feel crap or feel like people won't listen to them, don't let him. Also, the fact that you ran, and then subsequently kneed him in the bollocks shows you didn't want it at the time and change your mind afterwards.
You're in the right, don't be afraid, go to the police.
I know how the law works Chica. And at the moment you are in the right and he is in the wrong.
And as for not being able to tell your bf, do you seriously believe he would believe that you are cheating on him with satan? If you believe that he doesnt trust you then why are you fighting for your relationship anyway? Tell your bf, the longer you keep it in the dark the more likely it is that he will believe something is up. And as for your mum, you need to sit her down and try and talk sense into her, no offence but she cant be too bright if she doesnt realise the pain you are going through right now.
But please, dont give up on the police, this situation has the potential to worsen a lot in a short space of time, and they will realise that to. They have seen thousands of cases like this and i know that they will have seen the signs before and also realiseit could escalate.
Do the right thing, for your sake.
I also think that you should tell Paul because if he finds out off satan and satan makes it out like you wanted to kiss him Paul will wonder if it is true because you didnt tell him about he will probably whether you have something to hide.
This might sound a bit off topic, but, did you know that one of the reasons they don't have the nit nurse at schools anymore is that it's considered common assault!!!
Just make sure that you write every incident down. When you go to the police station, just say that you need to tell someone & have it logged, ask their advice etc.
j9
good luck hun
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
good luck
Luka
The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
Keep the Vibe!
This is harassment if nothing else Chicca
j9
Maybe you could write them a letter if they won't talk to you and just stick it somewhere where they'll find it? They might be able to read that without blowing up like they'd do if you tried to talk to them.