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Bloody hell I'm really confused this time. Which means this might not make much sense. Anyway here goes.....
I been with my g/f for 1 month tomorrow, everythins been goin really well, we've only had 1 argument, well not really an argument, more me being a prick. But apart from that its been good.
The thing is, we have maybe been gettin on too well. She's told me she loves me. Yes I know it might seem a bit soon, but I dont like to define love, it means different things to different people. But I told her I loved her back, mainly because I thought she was half joking or whatever. And now we've begun to plan things (I'm goin to uni 100 miles away in autumn, then hopefully to get a job in London). She says she's gonna stand by me and that her heart is set on going there now, with me.
She's also talkin about havin kids etc etc
What I'm tryin to say is that is all this healthy for our relationship ?? Is it gonna burn out, purely because we been doin too much, too soon ??
I been with my g/f for 1 month tomorrow, everythins been goin really well, we've only had 1 argument, well not really an argument, more me being a prick. But apart from that its been good.
The thing is, we have maybe been gettin on too well. She's told me she loves me. Yes I know it might seem a bit soon, but I dont like to define love, it means different things to different people. But I told her I loved her back, mainly because I thought she was half joking or whatever. And now we've begun to plan things (I'm goin to uni 100 miles away in autumn, then hopefully to get a job in London). She says she's gonna stand by me and that her heart is set on going there now, with me.
She's also talkin about havin kids etc etc
What I'm tryin to say is that is all this healthy for our relationship ?? Is it gonna burn out, purely because we been doin too much, too soon ??
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I dont wanna tell her this, coz it might rock the boat + hurt her feelings
and it hurt him. both my feelings, AND the fact i hadnt talked to him about it before. so, i think you should try and talk about this with your gf, it will hurt her more if she finds out your feelings from someone else first.
Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
But I DO want to b with her, she is kinda special to me, and I would love to keep goin out with her.
But yeah maybe I should talk to her, she's the approacahable type, thank god.
i know exactly how you feel though. it was only about 2 or 3 months into the relationship where it all happened with me, and we were together 16 months.
Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
she is talking having kids after a months (I feel suffoctated and I don't even know her) (kidding sorry) um I went threw that with someone one he was just getting to into "us" I ended up breaking up with him but I don't really think there's anything wrong with your girlfriend she may just be alittle excited about this new relationship(alittle to excited) but then again I don't know I do think if it bothers you this much u should say something But be very careful the way u say this to her she might take it the wrong way then u have an even bigger problem
ummm good luck with her <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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