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Insensitive so called mates

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I am getting totally pissed off my a mate who i am close with only when her bloke aint about.

As most of u know i just split up with my boyf, and now for the first time in 5 years i am single and up to now have been enjoying it. BUT last nite, we decided to go to the pub, then we moved on to her boyfs local where we met him, this wsa fine, there were other mates there to talk to. But when they went home they only had eachother to talk to, and then all the smoochy huggy kissy stuff started. Knowing i had just split, i thought this was a but insensitive of them.

Anyway, i was getting pissed off and decided to leave. No one offered to walk me to a taxi or nothing and there is a rapist around our town at the moment.

She don't like getting in taxis on her own, but i have got used to it. She just wants me so that she has someone to walk in the pub with and i aint havin it.

As soon as i pass my test i will drive at weekends and not Drink coz i don't really like taxis much either but don't have a choice.

And another thing. Last week she hated her bloke coz he wasn't treatin her right this week he's the bees knees, its like this all the time. RRRRRAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGHHHHH!!!!

But as u can tell.....i'm not bitter !!!!


[This message has been edited by mandi7810 (edited 05-05-2001).]

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    great that u told us, but i'm sure can work out the route to fixing this, which is communication:
    TALK TO HER!

    and good luck.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't want to offend any girls but GIRLS ARE GENERALLY BITCHIER. They really are. how nastys this: a friend of mine was supposed to go to the cinema with 2 mates, they stood her up..no phone call....... hello.....NOT FRIENDS.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with the girls being bitchier thing. Most of my friends r blokes now and the girls that I am friends with r a lot older than me. I find girls my age really immature (no offence anyone here its just the girls Ive met that I find this!) I think it has a lot to do with the fact Ive done a lot of things in my life, some good and some bad and started doing things much ear;lier than most people. I just dont relate to girls my age.
    Ive been shitted on by so many so-called mates but ive learned a lot from them. U should just noty expect anytyhing from anyone and that when when they treat u like shit it dont hurt so much. Thats the way I see it anyway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah girls are bitches. My friends are exactly the same.

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    I wonder who she is
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    yeah girls are bitches. My friends are exactly the same.


    OK SORTED...GIRLS R BITCHES...........

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    yeah im gonna agree with the girls being bitchier by far.

    okay this livejournal thing where you can write a diary and keep it private or like write one your friends can read... for about a week a couple of them have been repeatedly mentioning this party another m8 of mine is having. and it was blatantly one i havent been invited to, and he was being just as funny about it on the livejournal. (he can be hella bitchy too, but hes bisexual so there ya go lol)...

    anyway i mentioned in my latest entry that i was feeling neglected after it was being talked about right in front of my nose, and how i wondered why i was the only one looking forward to may 25th (last day of school)... and then i got these bitchy "anonymous" comments back (i ran an IP check and it confirmed the first was julie, and the second was either emma, crap non-friend, or jon)... saying if i wasnt well enough to go to school all week then i wasnt well enough to go to a party surely...and the second one was that if i wasnt well enough for school all week then surely i wasnt well enough for asda??

    basically i had a bit of a mental burnout, mini breakdown type thing, and ive been to my school and sorted things out with the head of year and a couple of my teachers, and sorted the impending coursework deadline okay... and i dont want to tell them, they'll just bitch about it, and so i was keeping it quiet. but ive been working in asda since thursday! jon works there too and today he saw me and sort of smiled, i gave him one of the polite "asda" smiles and walked off and ignored him.

    theyre always like this, so judgmental, which is part of the reason i might not be going back to school, only for essential lessons and stuff i need. grrrr.

    sorry this has turned into my own essay now!!! sorry mandi. but i can totally sympathise about the crap mates, i could go on for hours about just a few of the many betrayals and stuff ive had from my m8s, jon included. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; why cant i have some decent friends for once?! that i can actually do stuff with who arent at the other end of a computer <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    Why cant i have some decent friends for once?! that i can actually do stuff with who arent at the other end of a computer <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;


    EMMA!! Dear God girl, some of the things you say make me think we're really similar! lol

    And Mandi - your friend is CRAP! The minute they break up you know she'll come running back to you, begging for sympathy and a shoulder to cry on. Try not to go out with her too much - I mean don't go out of your way to socialise with her - do more stuff with your other mates and only go out with her if she asks you and you wanna go <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Chickadee:
    EMMA!! Dear God girl, some of the things you say make me think we're really similar! lol

    well get your ass down here then!!! and ill introduce you to matt who i work with! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; lol.. too young for me and im very much taken, but you're the perfect age <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    god im matchmaking and its a mythical situation lol... you should still move down here claire and then i wouldnt even have to pretend that i want to be their friend coz id have one of my own! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:

    god im matchmaking and its a mythical situation


    Damn right it's mythical - pass on my apologies to Matt but things are still going well with my internet bloke <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Yay! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    you should still move down here claire and then i wouldnt even have to pretend that i want to be their friend coz id have one of my own! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Awwww someone wants to be my friend! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Aw wow I dunno what to say! Is it kinda sad that I'm practically in tears right now? Probably <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



    [This message has been edited by Chickadee (edited 06-05-2001).]
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Chickadee:
    Awwww someone wants to be my friend! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Aw wow I dunno what to say! Is it kinda sad that I'm practically in tears right now? Probably <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">(edited 06-05-2001).]

    awwwwwww im sorry!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; but in a good way at least <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    glad to hear its going well with net lad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When we go out on a girlie nite or with a group of friends she's fine, and she hardly sees her boyf that much only about twice a week, so i can't really say too much other than when i know she is gonna meet him i'll opt out and go home and leave them to it.

    She doesn't completely drop us, its just this public display of affection that pisses me off, especially when last week he was a bastard and now he's a god!!!

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