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In a knot!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships

Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
Ive got a bit of a problem, so can you try and help me out!
Right, before me&my boyfriend went out i had fancied this guy for atleast 3yrs he was my 1st high school love! Then after 3yrs of hoping i gave up, and this guy moved to Brazil <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; i was really sad! Then i met my boyfriend who ive been with for a yr and a bit(sortof) and i love him to bits! BUT, this guy has came back from Brazil and now he wishes that he could have me, he calls me, emails me, texts me, saying all the right things! I dont want to leave my boyfriend cause i love him with everything but how can i phase this guy out! I dont want to tell him i want nothing to do with him, cause hes like.......in away always been there! I dont know what to do!Im confused!
Love Miss_Kxxxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you love your boyfriend then tell this other guy that and let him know that u would like to be friends with him
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Say u've got a boyfriend at the moment, u'd like to be friends, and that u never, maybe one day things will change <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; keep his hopes up at least a BIT.
    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Miss_K:

    Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    Ive got a bit of a problem, so can you try and help me out!
    Right, before me&my boyfriend went out i had fancied this guy for atleast 3yrs he was my 1st high school love! Then after 3yrs of hoping i gave up, and this guy moved to Brazil <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; i was really sad! Then i met my boyfriend who ive been with for a yr and a bit(sortof) and i love him to bits! BUT, this guy has came back from Brazil and now he wishes that he could have me, he calls me, emails me, texts me, saying all the right things! I dont want to leave my boyfriend cause i love him with everything but how can i phase this guy out! I dont want to tell him i want nothing to do with him, cause hes like.......in away always been there! I dont know what to do!Im confused!
    Love Miss_Kxxxx

    Without reading what everyone else has to say....
    Forget this brazilian guy and just think to yourself that...I could have had him but im not shallow enough.... It'll make you smirk and feel good all the time..... GOOD TIP!!

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i know what you mean about fancying someone for years and stuff.. but if someone who fitted that category for me turned round and said hed liked me all along and wants us to be together or something... id say no. say that he missed his chance, coz he would have done, im with someone else now who im totally in love with and who i wouldnt dump as soon as the next guy comes along.

    and i think you should do the same <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; er not dump him that is (im tired again, making very little sense i think! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">)
    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
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