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Why Are People Quick To Judge
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Hiya,
i am having a problem, for a long time now, about a year and a bit. I have felt people are to quick to judge me for who I am and what I want!
Also when I send an email or something to try to get a responce yeh we should do that, i seem to get the responce You shouldn't force people and make people do things.
In the long run I just feel many people judge me for what I say and what I want and never see the things I actually want to do, or what I am trying to say!
what should I do to solve this? or is there a way to change, or should I ignore it, I just dont know anymore on what to do, I had a similar judgemental problem by someone today.
help me
hicks
i am having a problem, for a long time now, about a year and a bit. I have felt people are to quick to judge me for who I am and what I want!
Also when I send an email or something to try to get a responce yeh we should do that, i seem to get the responce You shouldn't force people and make people do things.
In the long run I just feel many people judge me for what I say and what I want and never see the things I actually want to do, or what I am trying to say!
what should I do to solve this? or is there a way to change, or should I ignore it, I just dont know anymore on what to do, I had a similar judgemental problem by someone today.
help me
hicks
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everyone else is an arse
your an arse
perhaps you're not communicating what you want properly. in all honesty, i had problems understanding your post.
Oh dear i think i am doing exactly that, not getting you
Thats what i was trying to say but did it poorly.
basically think about what your sayin and how it will come out to others if your 'good with words'
not hard.
heh, i knew what you meant.
its you're not your!
Give him a break i know what he means, it happens to me alot.
Everything i say comes out wrong, well most things.
does it really matter in the great scheme of things?
this poor lad is having problems.
sowwy. i'm all ill and irritable.
Will forgive you this time
I was quoting molo! who had previously said
" basically think about what your sayin and how it will come out to others if your 'good with words
not hard"
Not the person with the problem :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
you can only judge a person you are havinhg a conversation with by ...the conversation ...and how they look ...they call it body language.
some people judge a persons worth by the size of their wallet rather than by what a man does and speaks and believes etc.
fools.
sometimes you look a man in the eyes for a brief moment ...you can see his pain but know nothing of him. the face of a woman ...the laughter lines or the guant cheeks ...your brain is ...or should be mate ...making millions of calculations to form a view ...relaxing chemicals star to flow through your brain having a mind altering effect ...or the adrenalin has been primed ...ready to laugh or die ...those kjudgnmets are being made and poctures being formed.
i was going to manufavture mr mouse doors ...to be attached to a skirting board somwhere in your house.
dead simple and globaly a massive potential.
feel free to go and make yourself rich with my idea.