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ok to cut a long story short. Some juvenile delinquents(sp) have decided to make my sisters life a living hell. These boys all 16 obviously have the mental capacity of 8 year olds and think its acceptable to try and fight a 12 year old girl.
Today 6 of these boys were waiting outside my sisters school for her and thanks to the intervention of my mum they never got the chance to do anything.
Now heres my problem, im pickin her up tommorow and i know if they are waiting again i can forsee a fight happening. Im 22 so the fact that there 16 shouldnt be a problem accept theres gonna be a fair few. Anyone got any ideas on how i can take down 6 guys - lol. Anyone ever had the odds stacked against them and came out on top. I really dont want to fight but these boys are the kind that end up in prison by the time they are 18 and i know there gonna start even if i try to talk rationally to them.
p.s dont know if im breakin forum rules here so apologies in advance if i have.
Today 6 of these boys were waiting outside my sisters school for her and thanks to the intervention of my mum they never got the chance to do anything.
Now heres my problem, im pickin her up tommorow and i know if they are waiting again i can forsee a fight happening. Im 22 so the fact that there 16 shouldnt be a problem accept theres gonna be a fair few. Anyone got any ideas on how i can take down 6 guys - lol. Anyone ever had the odds stacked against them and came out on top. I really dont want to fight but these boys are the kind that end up in prison by the time they are 18 and i know there gonna start even if i try to talk rationally to them.
p.s dont know if im breakin forum rules here so apologies in advance if i have.
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hope this helps
Luby
you volunteering yourself Rolly???
teach her self respect and self esteem
Fair enough - 16 year old kids are a force to be reconed with BUT....she (Your sister) most needs to know that she is not at fault, she is powerful, she can walk away and still be the winner.
Why have these 16 year olds started to pick on a 12 year old??!! It's most bizzare. What on earth would a 16 year old have to do with a 12 year old unless they were related!
If you know who they are report them. Arrange to be there for your sister and lead by example...walk away - be aloof if it's needed - fuck em...
Anyway my plan is just to try and knock out the biggest one first which will scare the others..:( i really am just annoyed that i have to be in this situation in the first place
I know this is a difficult situation and you're worried about your sister but some of the advice other people have given is really good (like informing the school and telling her to stay inside the gates until you get there). You may also find the info in this article useful.
Oh and just so you know, pepper spray is illegal in Britain so it's best not to add to your problems by carrying that.
And one last thing, rather than working out how to take down six guys, it's best to try to avoid the need for that situation entirely, there's some information in this article that may help with that.
Good luck,
CB
Ugh! For fuck sake NO!
With these kindsa people, that is the worst thing you could do.
you might think because your older, you can take them on, but there's just been an incident in leeds where a 16 year old boy stabbed another guy to death.
i understand you want to protect your sister, but don't put both of you in danger to do it.
Being the older brother it is natural that you want to protect your little sis. Violence, in my eyes, is the easiest option. Sure you could storm up and knock and few teeth out but are you gonna be about every day after school to pick her up?
You say they are a gang of terraways but have you actually tried talking to them? Asked them exactly why they have a problem with your sis?
Personally I would try scare tactics. Tell them that if they are hard enough to be picking on a 12yo girl then they're hard enough to get a kicking from her 22yo brother. Either one at a time or all together. Try and look confident. Maintain eye contact with the biggest fucker.
If they start becomming all aggresive agree to a fight but not there and then. Make a date/time/place (you wouldn't want to have your sis about incase a quick getaway is needed) and bring along some mates to even up the sides. Once they see it's not gonna be 6 muppets V a single 12yo girl or even 6 muppets V her brother but 6 oh-fuck-what-have-we-got-ourselves-into-shit-scared muppets V 10 22yo I'm-gonna-rip-you-a-new-asshole guys they might think twice about things.
Although what pisses me off is a few years ago, if you got into a fight with someone, you'd have it there and then. If you got your arse kicked that was it, and mates wouldn't come into it. Now it's all about gangs, if you get into a fight with one person all their mates are automatically involved.
Tell me about it!!:rolleyes:
they're hardly going to start on her with her mum there!
Well if they kicked off with a 12 year old girl...
You've always been one step behind Mr Seed
They deserve it, so why the hell not.
'Cause that'd be a stupid idea
why?
Because the school won't do much, the police can't do much unless they actually hit the girl, and it's the reaction the kids are after too, oh and the fact that most kids like that couldn't care less about getting sent to a young offenders' centre.
yeh, i see exactly what you mean. least if they do talk to the school or the police then it'll (presumably) be on their records.
yeh, and also get you a criminal record!
Londonboy described the type of people they are - the kind that'll no doubt end up in jail. We all know these kinds of people. If the prospect of jail doesn't deter them from commiting crimes, being reported to their school's hardly gonna make a difference either, is it? It'll only make the situation worse.
Trust me, I've seen it happen to people before.
march 'em all to labour camps first so we can live off their pain. then euthableedinwotsitem.
problems sorted.
The problem is ... what affect will this have on your sister? From what you've said about them they sound like right fuckers. If you go down and beat the shit out of them is that gonna stop them or make them want to pick on your sister more? You can't pick her up every day so whose gonna protect her next time? Beating them up might piss them off enough to get worse with your sister.
Shit, its a tough one ... not sure what advice i can give. I'd say go by yourself and don't start anything but don't back down. Their cowards ... 6 of them to a 12 year old girl! But there is 6 of them and they'll be looking to prove themselves in front of their mates. Just be confident, don't get nervous - look em right in the eye and tell them to fuck off.
The only other thing i'd add is be realistic as to when/if it could kick off. If they start pushing and shoving you then its gonna be a fight and their just building themselves up to it. If that happens i'd spank the lad who pushes you (who'll most likely be the ringleader - either the cockiest or the biggest) at that point they'll either back off or go for you.
Not the best advice i know, difficult situation. Just don't resort to violence until you know its gonna happen.