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well all do this but why?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
wen we get our hearts broken we all vow never to love again and never to go near a member of the opposite sex again but still me all do! we all find sum1 new and then the unlucky ones of us go through it all again and say again that we r gonna stay single 4 ever then it happens again....and again....and again! why is that!!?? u'd thnk we wud learn from our mistakes! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's called human nature, and the need to feel loved.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i know but its just the was we all swear never to do it again and we always do!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The only reason i can give is that we are all suckers for more.

    and the old saying is still true to this day " it is better to have loved and lost than ever to have loved at all " we all do it its just we need love attention and someone to cuddle up with on long lonely nights.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by blonde_batman:
    <STRONG>yeah i know but its just the was we all swear never to do it again and we always do!</STRONG>

    Yes, you've already made that point, we did read your original post. Point being, if you want us to call in the resident psych, we can, but I suggest DJPs simplistic but explanatory answer should suffice.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    basically you feel hurt and you rationalize with yourself vowing never to fall in love again, without a doubt youll tell some1 this, itll be attention seeking since youve been hurt so badly.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cz evry girl needs a man and evry man needs a girl... even if its just 4 a shag! F xx <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hunni:
    <STRONG>cz evry girl needs a man and evry man needs a girl... even if its just 4 a shag! F xx <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    *rolls eyes*

    I'm beginning to think that Turtle's stance on your behaviour was pretty fair.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hunni:
    <STRONG>cz evry girl needs a man and evry man needs a girl... even if its just 4 a shag! F xx <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    I think you need more than one flaming from Turtle!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by blonde_batman:
    <STRONG>wen we get our hearts broken we all vow never to love again and never to go near a member of the opposite sex again but still me all do! we all find sum1 new and then the unlucky ones of us go through it all again and say again that we r gonna stay single 4 ever then it happens again....and again....and again! why is that!!?? u'd thnk we wud learn from our mistakes! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    We don't get hurt by the relationships themselves, most of the time, but by realising that we had expected too much of them.

    The fact is that we all try to make 'love' out of every relationship, rather than waiting for real love before having a relationship. Now, either way can work, but the former way can hurt more, because it is far less likely to work out.

    It happens less generally as you gain in experience, and learn to spot real potential, and not waste time on relationships that will simply never be 'true love' at all.
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