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despite the usual complexity of the problems on here i have a odd question to ask...
peple say how good kisees are, no matter how good the kisser they are it NEVER does anything for me other than if it the person i really about
is it just i have no taste or am i bad kisser?
who knows but would you care?
i really dont see it as anything toher than showing someone you care about and getting close to them which you can quite happily do in public
peple say how good kisees are, no matter how good the kisser they are it NEVER does anything for me other than if it the person i really about
is it just i have no taste or am i bad kisser?
who knows but would you care?
i really dont see it as anything toher than showing someone you care about and getting close to them which you can quite happily do in public
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I guess its more of a way of being in touch with someones emotions rather that anything specificaly physical.
although when you're getting to know someone lots of kissing is fun!
but thats what you do when you're young and the club scene is all new to you. you get swept along with the dancing, the drink and your friends and the boys coming onto you.
Tell that to the old trollops round my way
Kissing is kind of the same,
Even the lads will agree a kiss f some random stranger in a club is enjoyable but soon forgotten. Where as your first kiss with anew partner is special-
like the film 50 first dates!
Its technique you continously have to learn each new partner will kiss slightly differently
sex is different on the other hand, enjoyed in anyway whatsoever
I just believe that solely the connection of 2 pairs of lips{no hugging or anything else} is all in the mind & it's a connection of 2 peoples emotions/feels.
Especially with your other half - it's just much more enjoyable. You can do all sorts of kisses: soft brushing, nibbling kisses, rough, filthy kisses, small gentle pecks.
I think the most sexy kisses are the ones where you are just brushing against each other's lips softly, then you lean in for a proper kiss and you back away..AHH! I love that.
I dunno, it takes practice I suppose, but once you're with someone who makes it just as nice it's all worth the wait I reckon. :yes:
sometimes we'd kiss for ages, and i just wouldn't want to stop.
kissing her, and the thought of kissing her used to turn me on.
(thinking too much about it now, will end up with a sad face like Groovaybaby)
Ye I agree with you here, especially about the middle bit-
Love that, its kinda playful and sexy at the same time.
But I always get carried away, So I either kinda brush her hair aside or hold her hand or something when I need to behave- otherwise
Oooh, mines does that too. He's got a cup ze face addiction.
yyep agreeeeeeee now jus hopin there a girl out there like dat :P
that film's well good!
it makes me feel buzy!
I love my boyfriend's kisses! they're so sexy!
I'm so in love!
but otherwise does it fo anything for you, even if it who i fancy does nothing
I agree with the getting hold of people in clubs thing - it is shit. I used to do it all the time when I was about 17 and they were some of the worst snogs I've ever had! Eeuurrgh... *cringe*
It does really help if you fancy the pants off the person you're with though... I was in love with my ex but we definitely lost the spark towards the end of our relationship and there was just nothing there when we kissed. At all.
My new blokie however... well thats a different story! I've been with him just over 6 months and we're still at that phase where we can't keep our hands off eachother. I'd liked him for ages when we got together and our first kiss was amazing - I'd never had anything like it and I think we were both a bit shocked!
Its still going very well though and one kiss from him and I just melt... tis good!
I'm not surprised- kissing someone you feel nothing for isn't worth anything. when its 'just a kiss' with 'just a person' then its just swapping saliva, so I'm not surprised that it doesn't do anything for you- it helps to be crazy about someone!
And do you like it when he does that?
Oh I love drifting down and nibblng on their neck to,can really get some of them going.
Oooh, I love having my neck nibbled, and yar I like it when he cups my face, it's really tender and affectionate and just lovely.
So I am brilliant after all-
Or are you just agreeing with all all my techniques because you secretly crave me?:yeees:
Sorry but I told you before im taken
I can't dredge up excitement by pulling in clubs. I'd rather talk to someone/have a laugh and then at least if you like each other you get the flirty build up and the wait and then the kiss at the end is all the better for that.
I'm trying really hard to think of a way to explain why kissing is great and not in a turn on way but it's really difficult.
The look before you kiss is the bit i like best, when you it's about to happen and i brings you closer together.
*shrugs* probably me waffling bollocks though
The best kiss I've ever had was the drunken ironic tear filled one that my last girlfriend gave me a week before she dumped me! (There was so much raw emotion in it that I didn't understand at the time, but was totally electric.)
I think that experience has a lot to do with it. Just like all other things physical in a relationship you get learn how to kiss the other person in *just* the right way to make them melt.
i love it when your with someone+everytime you see them you just want to be kissing them+holding them close in your arms *dreams*
*has craving to kiss someone*