Ex b.friends/g.friends?

Former Member

Hi,

I'm having a big problem at the moment with my g.friends ex b.friend.

They split up about 4 months ago and I've been with her for about 2 months. She found out after they split up (they went out for 9 months) that he had been cheating on her for about 6 months.

Her ex is now with someone else and planning to have kids etc etc but he still rings up my g.friend every weekend, and when he has problems with his ex. I'm not REALLY jealous but I carn't understand how she finds out he cheated on her and is still offering her friendship to him?

I had a arguement with her about this and she got really upset but agreed i had a point. She told him to leave her alone and go there seprate ways. He laid of for a while but then he called he saying he wanted her back, she told him to piss of basically but he later apoligised and he still rings her ever weekend and I'm worried that she might just once we have an arguement do someit she regrets.

Former Member

It sounds a nightmare. Sorry can't help much be send my best to you. Personally in that situation i'd be tempted to do two things, tell your g/friends ex's g/friend about it and two a more direct approach. I find threats and demonstrations of a little violencs work wonders in persuading people to stop irritating/upsetting my mates.

Good luck with it and hope the little sod(ex)F**Ks off <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Former Member

The main problem is I dont even no this guy all that well, I havent met him and doubt I ever will,so I anit gona meet his g.friend.

I hate arguing with hy g.friend over it but she told me how when they split up (Beforer us though) they had a one night fling with each other while he is with his current g.friend and this makes my .g.friend really gulity. This makes me even more insecure HELP!