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This girl I like...

I went to a fancy dress halloween party, and got MASHED which was very cool. She came and stayed over at mine. I went to the party as a goth, and she went as an 80's rock chick. We had 8 bottles each, and we were doing draw with other mates as well. Crawled away from the party at about 12.30 am, and we had to walk home which was a huge laugh in itself. We got in, and decided to go shopping in tesco's at 1.30 am, so we did, and spent 16 quid on fuck knows what, lol. Walked home again, throwing food at each other and at random lampposts, street lights, road signs etc. Havn't had a madder time for a while. Crashed out in various beds, sofas, floors, lol.

I think I love her *dodgy* I mean I don't know if the feelings are as in a bond between mates, which I wouldnt really know anything about, or whether it's something more? We slept in the same bed, before i decided to go get a drink and ended up crashing into the wardrobe, lol. And when I said bye to her, I hugged her and told her that I loved her, and she did the same back. I'm so fucking confused. I mean I'll admit to being curious and fancying other girls before, but never so strongly as this. And she has slept with other girls before as well, and says that "its fun". But she has a boyfriend right now, So what the fuck? I've seen her a few times since, and havn't been able to look her in the eye. She was really gone that night, I don't think she remembers if she did anything. I vaguely recall doing stuff, but only bits of it, I'm not even sure on how far it went.

*covers face with hands* what do I do? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

[This message has been edited by charley (edited 24-11-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *hug*

    Try not to worry about it, if you did sleep with her or something its not a bad thing.

    But about the fancying her part...Im not sure what to do. If shes got a bf Id say be careful, its the same as if she was a boy with a gf...getting involved in couple is always messy. Good luck, but dont avoid her, itll make things harder to sort out.

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