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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
"love" ?????????????
loves a crock

im in love with my ex still

for the last couple of months ive been trying to win back my ex who says shes still in love with me.

a couple of days ago she decided thats what she wanted as well. apparently i`m her one and only true love. i was happy as she the only person in the world i want.

this morning she changed her mind with a text saying shes not ready.

im now majorly depressed again and pretty pissed off.

now i dont know what to do. it feels like shes wrenched out my heart.

get drunk, screw around and smoke as much dope as you can, dont get involved with anyone. it only leads to your feelings getting hurt, crushed and you feeling like crap.

i wanna scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Joe,

    I know you are pissed off right now and probably don't need to hear this but there are plenty more fish in the sea and by the sounds of it you should move on and forget about her. If she didn't have the decency to tell you to your face that she had changed her mind then she is not worth you stressing over her.

    I know it's very cliche but time heals all wounds... so for now, go out, get out of your head and have a laugh with your mates and forget about women for a while...

    In a month or two you'll be wonderin why you felt this way and in another month or two after that you'll find it hard to remember her name!!!

    Take it easy boy!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Annie's right this girl isn't worth your time. If she treats the 'love of her life' like this I would hate to see how she treats her enemy's!!
    She seems to me like a gutless bitch that your better off without. Its easy for us to say it and your bound to still have feelings for her as you cant switch them on and off like she can but you need to get over her, you deserve better.

    Go out with the lads have a bit of fun and then you'll probably meet someone else and forget all about her. It does work trust me I'm talking from experience.

    Good Luck
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the problems is that a lot of the time i keep myself busy and dont really think about her but i dream about her a lot.

    and when im alone i cant think about anything else.

    she bit me bad.

    quite pathetic coming from a reformed womeniser.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi just act as normal dont come over desperate as she is considering going out with u just play it cool tell me how u get on! and as 4 feeling upset just do ur own thing god luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    angel

    xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know that feeling...the evil gut-wrenching sickening feeling... but I have no idea how get over it... what did you do to make yourself feel better?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ill tell you when ive done it spinny?

    gut wrenching is the feeling though.

    hey angel and miss p thanks for the advice ill be sure to let you know what happens.

    do you reckon i should phone her or just leave her?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ring her and ask her whats going on. You owe yourself that!
    xxxxs

    No man is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i phoned her and she said that she had decided not to get back with me but she couldn`t talk long cos she had to go somewhere.

    i wanna cry but im gonna get drunk instead
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Joeboy.... I know where you're coming from.

    I'm very much in the same shoes. I'm really sad to here that there are people out there that feel the same as me.

    If you want to talk, feel free to email me. I really hope you don't put your self though what I did to my self.

    Just don't forget that there is a tommorow.


    Bloggs.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my girl friend did the same only it happened nearly every week.
    its been a week now and i still love her but you have to get on. i went out last week hoping to forget her and ended up picking fights with anyone and everyone
    its stupid but i know wat your going through you build up so much anger and feel so down but i you have to realise that it's not worth it as you will prob just keep gettin let down anyway good luck
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey thanks for the support guys.

    I thought we were supposed to be the b*****ds
    though !!!!!!

    Lets hope we all feel better soon.


    Beatnusson im exactly the same, ive been reacting the same way, not good when your with mates. but i know where your coming from.

    Thanks again.


    It warms me to know that with all the bad things in the world that complete stranglers can find acceptance and comfort in each other, and be there for one another.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by joeboy:
    "love" ?????????????
    loves a crock

    im in love with my ex still


    i wanna scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    scream, babe. that's the best thing to do. I bought that shirt. Also get heavily drunk. For some weeks. Nothing else helps. Trust me. It can often happen even after a few years. I know. There's no cure. Unless u'll fell in love by accident with smb else. But, in such cases is very unlikely. Do what u feel to do except one thing. don't suicide.

    Sorry if I depressed u, but that's the naked true.



    work seriously damages health
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