Pulling Tips. HELP ME!!

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Hi I'm 18 and I'm just bloody useless. I just can't pull!! I always either just not bother trying because I get too fucked when I'm out! I'm not ugly, I look just as good, if not better, than my mate's who pull often. I've got a nice personality and have a lot of male and female friends. I just don't know the techniques to pull!! I'm a virgin and I haven't even snogged a girl! :S I even went to Ibiza and didn't get any snogs! Although I was totally fucked all holiday! I think it's cos I never ask girls out cos I think they're gonna say no! But surely at least some girl would have maybe tried to pull me! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; Someone give me techniques to use to pull cos it's gettin beyond the joke!

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Oh yeh I forgot to mention, the last girl i went out with was a girl in my year during the last year in primary school (we were both 12) and we went out for 6 months. She was like one of the girls all the boys wanted to go out with. I dumped her cos I fancied another girl in the class. But I ended up just becoming friends with the girl i fancied. Then ive not been out with nay girls ever since <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

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Mate,
Pulling is a confidence thing. I don't do it really coz i prefer to be in a kind of relationship thing with just one girl. However, if you're just out on the pull, the law of averages apply. You're always gonna get turned down by someone, just gotta grow some balls and develop a slightly thicker skin. Be brave. If this takes alcohol, then go for it. Good luck.

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http://www.thesite.org/student/a_beginners_guide_to_pulling.html

Glad to be of service!
Susie <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Well what how should I start talking to the girls? What should I talk to them about? It's not that I just wanna pull. I would love to be in a proper relationship, but I wont get in that position unless I pull the girl I would want a relationship with first.

Girls, please give me some advice as well as the lads.

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Hey Lonely Boy,

It's quite simple really.. You're out, you see someone you think is a potential snog.. Just stand near her and strike up a conversation.. start off with.. "Well, how's it goin" or "you on the piss tonight?" You know what I mean.. friendly not comin on to her straightaway.. then take it from there. If she's interested you'll know immediately (she make the effort to talk to you). How you know she's not interested is when all you get are monosyllable answers, like "yes" "no" etc.

You sound great so Good luck mate.

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you have to make a move, not just wait for someone to come on to you. a lot of girls expect the guy to make the first move. Then just chat to her as though she was a friend, ask her to dance. If there's something about her you like, tell her, but don't be corny, and don't say something unless you mean it, it can be quite obvious if a compliment is meant or not. Then see where it goes. I agree with annie, you'll be able to tell if she is interested by the way she reponds, but don't get downhearted if someone rejects you as everyone has different tastes, and just because one did, the other might not!

Good luck!

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Originally posted by fearful_penguin:
you have to make a move, not just wait for someone to come on to you. a lot of girls expect the guy to make the first move.

Why is that? Is it not just the most annoying thing? Do girls ever ask guys out?

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PS Lonely lad: I am in the same position as you at 19 (sad isn't it?)

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To answer your question Dave.. girls do ask guys out.. I have on occasion but usually it's the other way round.. crazy I know but it's just the way the game is played I guess!The reason for it.. fear of rejection and making a fool of yourself? Who knows..

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Originally posted by Comedy Dave:
PS Lonely lad: I am in the same position as you at 19 (sad isn't it?)

Dave/Lonely Lad. Same as you guys, mayb we should go on a confidence kick, what do you say?

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you would think that as it is my head, I would control what the voices say.... funny huh?

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Lads I anit no brad pitt but i anit ugly but Ur worring to much bout this.

When your out in a club, and you see a girl you fancy, try to make as much eye contact as possible but dont just stare at there tits lads it dosent work trust me.

If you get them staring back and you catch them doing it often just walk near them and try and make conversation if there by themself. I wouldnt advise you to do it if there in a group of girls cus u have more chance of getting blanced

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act urself if u are as nice asd u make out 2 be u dont need 2 get drunk!

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Originally posted by fearful_penguin:
you have to make a move, not just wait for someone to come on to you. a lot of girls expect the guy to make the first move.

i have 2 agree with comedy dave. i think that in the 21st century this state of affairs is just disgusting. i have neva eva known a bloke who would be in the slightest bit offended if a girl asked him out - most would be very flattered, i know i would be! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; so how about it girls? uve got ur equal rights etc, now use them - phhuuurrrrleesee!!!

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Because I want more stars.

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I always wait for a lad to approach me. The last time that i asked a lad out to his face, he went away (me thinkin he was askin his mates what they thought) then he come back with his girlfriend! the both of them just pointef at me. HOW EMBARRASING

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Originally posted by hells angel:
I always wait for a lad to approach me. The last time that i asked a lad out to his face, he went away (me thinkin he was askin his mates what they thought) then he come back with his girlfriend! the both of them just pointef at me. HOW EMBARRASING

And as if it wouldn't be embarrasing for a lad? It doesn't make any difference. I don't see why girls don't ask guys out. Equal rights girls, what's stopping you? As you may know girls, if your looking for a "nice" guy he is unlikely to approach you because he isn't over-confident like the "bad" guys. Girls if you want your "nice" guys, speak to some quiet guys, help them out, it's most likely they'll be single!

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women asking blokes out - now that would be a happy day!!only once i think has a girl ever tried to pull me, as opposed to the other way round.

im sorry to hear about ur pulling probs lonely lad, i used to be the same and have gone through a stage recently of not having pulled for ages and ages. why i dont know.
Question: what do ur girlie friends think of u?

if their single maybe give them a try.

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Lonely Lad wrote:

Oh yeh I forgot to mention, the last girl i went out with was a girl in my year during the last year in primary school (we were both 12) and we went out for 6 months. She was like one of the girls all the boys wanted to go out with. I dumped her cos I fancied another girl in the class. But I ended up just becoming friends with the girl i fancied. Then ive not been out with nay girls ever since <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

YOU SQUARE! It's pretty simple if u wanna pull a bird. Just find the one, be cool, just walk up to them, start a conversation, like "how's it goin?" or if u just want her to come over to you and your mates, just say something like "my dickhead friend is such a f****** twat, he well likes you but is too scared to ask u out"

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4 years. FOUR YEARS! This thread is FOUR YEARS OLD! I mean, SERIOUSLY?!

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lol

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Chances are that after 4 years he's figured out how to pull. One tip tipster don't reply to an old thread.

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well wot if he still aint pulled n hes like 22 now!! :chin:

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Tipster wrote:

YOU SQUARE! It's pretty simple if u wanna pull a bird. Just find the one, be cool, just walk up to them, start a conversation, like "how's it goin?" or if u just want her to come over to you and your mates, just say something like "my dickhead friend is such a f****** twat, he well likes you but is too scared to ask u out"

You actually have luck with pulling?

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Felix Da Housecat wrote:

You actually have luck with pulling?

Nah, but his mate gets a lot of action

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Whats with all the old threads being reborn?

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http://baddadraddad.topcities.com/

:wave:
I tend to be self-conscious. The result is nervousness, especially around someone I like a lot. So my goal becomes: forget about myself.

I tend to be afraid to let a person see the real me. Fear of rejection, with a capital F. So I need a lot of nurture. Loving nurture can't hurt ya.

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JRPeck wrote:

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I tend to be self-conscious. The result is nervousness, especially around someone I like a lot. So my goal becomes: forget about myself.

I tend to be afraid to let a person see the real me. Fear of rejection, with a capital F. So I need a lot of nurture. Loving nurture can't hurt ya.

thats great dude :thumb:....real great

what has this got to do with pulling tips for this guy on a thread that is 4 years old!?

granted your a newb tho so welcome

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Lonely Lad wrote:

Hi I'm 18 and I'm just bloody useless. I just can't pull!! I always either just not bother trying because I get too fucked when I'm out! I'm not ugly, I look just as good, if not better, than my mate's who pull often. I've got a nice personality and have a lot of male and female friends.

my friend, you are suffering from the same problems that i do.. women are intimidated by your greatness and thus; head straight for the [easily-attainable] Second Prize every time.

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:rolleyes:

Any sign of that auto close thingy.... ?

it just takes a bit of sense to look and see how old a thread is even if your a newbie, and yet even that seems impossible.

"Fit and i know it" do you realise you are trying to give advice to someone who posted this 4 YEARS AGO and who more than likely doesnt even most here anymore

I mean jeez

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LOL What a looser!

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Ancient.