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Help! Is my g/f a freak?????
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hey,
i dunno where 2 start. well............. i went ova me g/f's house da other day and.........tried to (u no) but..................i couldnt get it in. (big problem!!!) (not my fault btw) also she is worried that she mite 'bleed all ov da place' the 1st time she has sex. Y is she overreactin doesnt she read magazines???????????????
plz tell me wot to do. shud i dump her?????? (i really love her and this wud be a last resort) wot can i do to stop this happenin again???????? (ne suggestions welcome)
i dunno where 2 start. well............. i went ova me g/f's house da other day and.........tried to (u no) but..................i couldnt get it in. (big problem!!!) (not my fault btw) also she is worried that she mite 'bleed all ov da place' the 1st time she has sex. Y is she overreactin doesnt she read magazines???????????????
plz tell me wot to do. shud i dump her?????? (i really love her and this wud be a last resort) wot can i do to stop this happenin again???????? (ne suggestions welcome)
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:eek2: Because she wont have sex with you?! :rolleyes:
Have you tried talking to her, it seems like shes not ready, or shes nervous. Talk to her about it, if u put her at ease it'l be better, but tbh i dont think you're being very fair to her. Callin her a freak 'cuz of this?.. nice.
Yes. Dump her and save her from going out with such an idiot :rolleyes:
If you stop going on at her maybe she wouldn't be so nervous about it. The first time can be quite scary as it is, let alone having some fool going on at you about it and calling you a freak :yeees:
:yeees: Sounds like it. Your contemplating dumping her because shes worried about having sex...thats true love for you. :thumb:
Talk to her about it. Calling her a freak 'coz she has hesitations is hardly going to help. Just reassure her that she'll be fine, but only go ahead with it if she's ready. Tbh, it sounds like she isn't ready, and is only willing to go ahead incase you dump her. And if that is the case, you've proved her point. She should find someone new.
Note: Avoid 'Txt tlk' coz it m8ks it hrd 2 read wen u rite lik dis.
well firstly -she isnt a freak. how would you feel if you couldnt get it u+she called you a freak??
dont dump her, she's done nothing wrong, she's just nervous - and that's natural. and as for bleeding all over the place; im sure she does read magazines, but everybody's different, and she must just want to make the first time special.
cut her some slack, she wont relax if you hassle or criticise her. take your time+go slowly!!!
As im the 4th out of 4 replies to quote the same thing, and aware of it, I usually wouldn't. However, you're an idiot. On the other hand, I can appreciate that you might be worried. What makes you so certain it's not your fault? Did she say 'Don't worry baby, it's not your fault'?
How old are you by the way? I'm guessing 13.
**Edited to add: 4th out of 5 replies then.
Boo-yah!
Don't worry, if it's her first time, she's just worried. Some women bleed more than others. Put her at ease with some Prozac
Believe it or not, the first time for a woman is not always particularly pleasant.
You do not seem to have a lot of respect for your girlfriend
reminds me of some thread i read in anything goes, i wonder what your reply would be if a mega poster had wrote the exact same thread.
it would go sumit like this........
You sound pathetic. Drop the crappy text chat aswell. and you say you love her but would dump her because shes worried about having sex. Get over yourself. She should dump you.
:rolleyes:
Oh, you reckon? You're not exactly helping.
lmao, it's people like you which make me realise i'm not that much of a moron!
No they didn't. If the loser is even having to ask the question then he is not deserving of any respect, and positively deserves to be flamed into next week.
and yeah.. i don't think you love her if you think she's a freak for being 'tight' or whatever
Back to the point of the thread... it can be really nerve wracking to have sex for the first time, you can read about it from a girls point of view here. Sex can also be painful for a number of reasons, you can read about them here.
And in case you haven't already thought about it, if you're going to have sex then it's important you use contraception, you can find out about your options here.
Hope this helps,
CB
ummm HELLO....have you ever considered that maybe shes only doing this for you and that shes not ready, or maybe your making her nervous,either way your NOT being fair on her at all! If you really loved her you would not even consider dumping her over something like this...it can be resolved so get a life, sex isnt everything! and its guys like you that call your girlfriends freaks over stupid things that make me nervous about doing anything at all with my boyfriend! this is why im so inexperienced ( pleaze help me out on my post about h.j anyone!)
Pheweeeee!
It's dead. Leave it!
Just like you are ~ :rolleyes:
she dont deserve to be treated like this by a tosser like u
"dump her" thats terrible
It's my three step tosser rehabilitation program.