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Annoyed
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Thats the only word to describe how i feel right now.
Me and my g/f broke up, cos i caught her on a bad day with a whole load of my probs. But now we back together cos she wants me (least thats what she says, i think its just cos she felt guitly for spliting up with me)
Anyways shes told all her mates she dumped me (thanxs for that) so shes getting everyone cheering her on as if i was some stupid little thing not worth it.
But we still going out. Shes told everyone we split up cos she didnt want a few certain girls interfering with us, like they did in the past. txing her telling me to dump me and what not.
So when we are around them i have to pretend im her mate, but what gets to me is, is that shes told them shes got a new b/f to hide the fact she'll be seeing me. Yet she talks about this 'b/f' as if he was real and i duno, i get pissed off by it cos it sounds as if shes cheating. Especially as the person she picked to be that 'b/f' is a bloke who tx';s her constantly with dirty messages.
Now onto him, he keeps on txing her dirty messages, i duno what they say, she hides her fone from me, or what she replies back with, but that annoyes me. But also if he phones her its like, go away Adam im on da fone, she dont want me near her, or touching her. Most girls normally would say 'look im out with someone, call me later' but no she'll quiet happerly spend 30 minutes on the fone ignoring me, till i say im leaving, then she'll run after me.
She txs people but hides her fone, which is ok, she needs her privacy, but its almost as if she got stuff there she dont want me to see.
Today she got a phone call and i said im going now, can i have a cuddle, she said no, so i go to give her a kiss on the check and i get pushed away. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
I duno when shes not on her fone and its just me and her, its great, shes all over me, or we having fun, but as soon as her mates/phone come into it, its like im almost not there and i get treated like crap. all my mates are telling me to dump her, but i dont wana cos i like her, i know thats hard to believe but when we on our own its good.
Just duno what to do, maybe its me being possesive, i just duno.
If you dont get the story ask me in here to explain the bit you want and i'll try my best, cos i want advice on this.
Adam ~ <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
Me and my g/f broke up, cos i caught her on a bad day with a whole load of my probs. But now we back together cos she wants me (least thats what she says, i think its just cos she felt guitly for spliting up with me)
Anyways shes told all her mates she dumped me (thanxs for that) so shes getting everyone cheering her on as if i was some stupid little thing not worth it.
But we still going out. Shes told everyone we split up cos she didnt want a few certain girls interfering with us, like they did in the past. txing her telling me to dump me and what not.
So when we are around them i have to pretend im her mate, but what gets to me is, is that shes told them shes got a new b/f to hide the fact she'll be seeing me. Yet she talks about this 'b/f' as if he was real and i duno, i get pissed off by it cos it sounds as if shes cheating. Especially as the person she picked to be that 'b/f' is a bloke who tx';s her constantly with dirty messages.
Now onto him, he keeps on txing her dirty messages, i duno what they say, she hides her fone from me, or what she replies back with, but that annoyes me. But also if he phones her its like, go away Adam im on da fone, she dont want me near her, or touching her. Most girls normally would say 'look im out with someone, call me later' but no she'll quiet happerly spend 30 minutes on the fone ignoring me, till i say im leaving, then she'll run after me.
She txs people but hides her fone, which is ok, she needs her privacy, but its almost as if she got stuff there she dont want me to see.
Today she got a phone call and i said im going now, can i have a cuddle, she said no, so i go to give her a kiss on the check and i get pushed away. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
I duno when shes not on her fone and its just me and her, its great, shes all over me, or we having fun, but as soon as her mates/phone come into it, its like im almost not there and i get treated like crap. all my mates are telling me to dump her, but i dont wana cos i like her, i know thats hard to believe but when we on our own its good.
Just duno what to do, maybe its me being possesive, i just duno.
If you dont get the story ask me in here to explain the bit you want and i'll try my best, cos i want advice on this.
Adam ~ <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
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I h8 to say this adam, but i have a feeling ur gf's having u on - what girl would be able2 keep from her friends who she's going out with? I think u're the one who isn't being told nething.
If u think that can't be the case then give us more detail, but read over what u've written, pretending its about someone else, and i think u'll see that it does look like u're being quite naive.
trust me and get rid of her ASAP to save your dignity!
x
Baby
I used to be schizophrenic, but we're OK now...
tell ur friends about "us", or we're thru.