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I like to have money to be able to get things I want or need. I dont want to sponge off others.
:eek: :eek: wow... you would rather work and spend all your own money than just have others buy you what you want/need and have all the free time in the world? amazing.
Yup.
Do you pay for your own food? Do you pay your own bills, electricty etc.? Are you paying for this internet access?
Thought not
Try being me. If I don't earn, I don't eat
And if you dont earn you can always go on job seekers and get your rent paid for you as well as £80 a week.
Edit: every 2 weeks.
lalalala the landlady (my roomates great aunt) pays all the utilities and i have no rent to pay, my roomate buys all the food and my gas and pot and alcohol and everything, my parents still buy me clothes and send me money all the time, my friends buy me meals and days out on the town... god i love my life
though it does get boring sometimes because everybody works during the day when i am alone... oh wait, no, i just sleep till all hours of the day so it ain't bad
I'm investing in some spectacles
is this a long term plan?
Oh, Ok then
oh i do hope so
but i am looking for a job (though i'm taking my jolly good time with it) and maybe in a year or two i'm gonna go back to school
You will be.
do your parents/roomate/whoever else see it as you sponging off them/a generous donation on their part/a loan you'll pay back?
I know you havent asked for my opinion but I'm going to give it anyway, I think the way you are acting about being unemployed and saying freely how you are taking your time about getting a job that you're very selfish. Fair enough if its your parents but not your friends. One day they might drop you like a tonne of bricks and when they do, sit back and think about this thread.
i probably won't think about this thread, though I will think about what I've done. I've been unemployed and acting this way for nearly 10 months now. Sure, my roomate may kick me out one day if it continues and she's had enough, but I know her very very well, and it would take alot. Alot as in I would have to burn the place down for her to kick me out. Yea, I may be selfish, so what? It is the way I am. I've been selfish forever. My friends are all aware of it. They know the extent of my selfishness and my lazyness, they know though. The good friends I have are friends thru and thru. No matter what happens. This statement has been tested many times. If any one of them was fed up and sick of the way I was acting they would not associate with me anymore. The topic has been brought up, yes, but they are still there for me. They may help me financially and other such ways, but I am there for them in so many ways just as equally as important. You're post does have a point, yet its not like that in my situation. Thanks.
Good on you :thumb:
I take it you still get money for cigs alcohol drugs coffee etc etc..
i would die without my cigarettes and *cough*stuff