Lust or love?

Former Member

Don't u just hate it when u go out to spend the night with your bloke and he ends up with all his mates and theres u hoping to get a good cosy night, but then your ideas go out the window. My bloke does it all the time should i dump him or tell him how i feel? i need advice from all u people males or females

Former Member

Well depends on how much you like him. If you like him and think its something you could work out then DEFINITELY tell him, if not I suppose you could just dump him. But you might as well tell him either way cuz who knows he might not even realize it bothers you. Good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

Former Member

I did it to my girlfriend in the past and I really hadn't realised how it would make her feel. She told me, I felt really guilty, and I haven't done it again.

Tell him, he'll probably apologise and try not to do it again. (Though he might forget, so make sure you remind him <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; ).

Former Member

I think if you haven;t said anything already he probably thinks you like his mates being around, I think you should tell him how you feel, things might get better and if they dont at least you wont be saying well what if i would have told him things might have been different.

Former Member

just tell him, how you feel if he respects you he will sort some time out to be with you and seperate time with his mates

NuttyLad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Former Member

Just tell him! He may not realise he is upsetting you!

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