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I just thought it'd be fun to share ideas on how to drive partners wild-
Here's a good one girls-
the 'twist at the top' thing is something I found in a book called "How to be a great lover" by Lou Paget- she calls it the 'Ode to Bryan' cos her gay friend Bryan told her about it, what you do is:
The guy is lying back, but is propped up so he can see what you're doing (it always helps), you're sitting between his legs, facing him, make sure you've got some lube on your hands.
Hold him in one hand at the base with your palm facing away from you, your thumb and index finger should be nestling in his pubes (your pinkie is furthest up)- (this is really hard to describe- in the book they have pictures!)
Make sure your wrist is flexed back, as you'll need to twist it around later.
Move your hand up the shaft, and when you get to the top, unflex your wrist, twisting his foreskin around (not too far) then slide your palm over the head around to the other side so your palm is now facing you, and slide back down, as your hand reaches the bottom, your other hand starts again, work up a rhythm, it ought to be good.
The great thing about this is he cant do it to himself! Apparently a guy will never ever want to leave you if you get this right!
I hope I've described this clearly enough- just ask if you're not sure- I know it sounds complicated!
Come on you lot, share! Girls, what have you discovered, guys, what do you love???
Freyja
Here's a good one girls-
the 'twist at the top' thing is something I found in a book called "How to be a great lover" by Lou Paget- she calls it the 'Ode to Bryan' cos her gay friend Bryan told her about it, what you do is:
The guy is lying back, but is propped up so he can see what you're doing (it always helps), you're sitting between his legs, facing him, make sure you've got some lube on your hands.
Hold him in one hand at the base with your palm facing away from you, your thumb and index finger should be nestling in his pubes (your pinkie is furthest up)- (this is really hard to describe- in the book they have pictures!)
Make sure your wrist is flexed back, as you'll need to twist it around later.
Move your hand up the shaft, and when you get to the top, unflex your wrist, twisting his foreskin around (not too far) then slide your palm over the head around to the other side so your palm is now facing you, and slide back down, as your hand reaches the bottom, your other hand starts again, work up a rhythm, it ought to be good.
The great thing about this is he cant do it to himself! Apparently a guy will never ever want to leave you if you get this right!
I hope I've described this clearly enough- just ask if you're not sure- I know it sounds complicated!
Come on you lot, share! Girls, what have you discovered, guys, what do you love???
Freyja
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:eek2: c'mon, guys can be creative too!
so here's what I discovered and my g/f loves
as posted in this thread:
http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=61774
I saw this on that 'sex tips for girls' programme when they where playing with rubber cock suctioned cupped onto dinner plates. They also said that wrapping a pearl necklace around your hand whilst giving someone hand relief is supposed to be good. I'll have to try this out to see if it's sends me bonkers
.:Crispy:.
I've heard this about pearls- it sound like the classy version of something you can actually buy, which can be compared to a soapdish- rubbery with little bumps all over it, you hold it inside your palm while working on him. Maybe it works, I've not tried cos although I expect its brilliant, there's something impersonal about sextoys that I'm not quite prepared for yet! (I'm actually quite innocent, believe it or not!) :angel:
Go on FLX- be creative- tell us everything;) !
Freyja
Yeah, mine's loves that too. Just between his balls and arse, he squrims about like mad. Mwuahah.
yeah good ol perenium
d'ya know, some of the tings you say, make u sound so like, evil lol.
lmao, not sure how to take that!
Cheers!
loads of stuff on this site for blokes to try on themselves but i guess you cud use some on a guy
Cheat!