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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Can I sound stupid an ask where exactly your clit (sorry can't spell full word) is?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Take this map and a compass!

    Head due north of the hole, where the first fold of skin be. Or even better ask her!

    Bopz
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Bopperz
    Or even better ask her!

    I think she is a her :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The clitoris is at the top of the vagina, sorta at the front. It's very sensitive so you should know when you've found it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah thats where I thought it was just checking. Sound silly probably.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bless you. So much.

    Ilora x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is that bless you you silly girl? Shame for you? Hehe just laugh at me!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angel1886
    Is that bless you you silly girl? Shame for you? Hehe just laugh at me!

    :confused:

    well what else was it that you thought was giving you pleasure?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I used to think the clit was the vagina :o
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dnt worry up intill i was 14 i had no idea what my clit was and i thought i was diformed. i was even goign to go to the docters and find out what it was. Thank god for sex ed!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is it true that the clitoris (spelled it out :D ) actually is the remains of what could have become the penis when you were a fetus?
    like when your reproductive organs are still developing inside your mom's belly and it's not sure if you're gonna become male or female yet?

    don't know where I got that idea from, but I think I recall hearing or reading it somewhere... :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its too low down to be a knob tho init?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by FLX
    is it true that the clitoris (spelled it out :D ) actually is the remains of what could have become the penis when you were a fetus?
    like when your reproductive organs are still developing inside your mom's belly and it's not sure if you're gonna become male or female yet?

    don't know where I got that idea from, but I think I recall hearing or reading it somewhere... :eek2:
    yeh ive heard that. doesnt everyone start off as a female?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no, not female, but more like asexual I think. but the rest of the body in this state probably isn't far-developed either.

    and I don't think the penis is lower than the clitoris.

    check this:

    Male reproductive organs
    Female reproductive organs

    the penis is just... bigger :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by FLX
    no, not female, but more like asexual I think. but the rest of the body in this state probably isn't far-developed either.

    and I don't think the penis is lower than the clitoris.

    check this:

    Male reproductive organs
    Female reproductive organs

    the penis is just... bigger :D

    How educational :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ...isn't it? :D
    I just love late-night-posting :cool:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lipsy
    yeh ive heard that. doesnt everyone start off as a female?

    I just did a quick flick thru my textbook from last years cell and molecular biol class but couldnt find the quote i was looking for.

    In basic terms...... a fetus, no matter what sex, develops the same to a certain point. If the Y chromosome (which makes XY thus male) is present at this point it will change the course of development. However if it is not present the fetus will continue to develop as a female (XX).

    So..... yeah. I wish i could find the quote cosi didnt explain it properly....... sigh

    Hope it helps
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lil_one
    I just did a quick flick thru my textbook from last years cell and molecular biol class but couldnt find the quote i was looking for.

    In basic terms...... a fetus, no matter what sex, develops the same to a certain point. If the Y chromosome (which makes XY thus male) is present at this point it will change the course of development. However if it is not present the fetus will continue to develop as a female (XX).

    So..... yeah. I wish i could find the quote cosi didnt explain it properly....... sigh

    Hope it helps
    hehe cheers. thought so :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, sounds like we're studying the same course, which is nice.

    Every developing embryo begins physically asexual and will develop into a male due to a Y chromosome and the resulting biochemical processes and hormones. The biological default is to become female and some people have a Y chromosome but are unable to respond to the chemicals because they lack the right cellular proteins so look like women. It's called androgen insensitivity syndrome and Jamie Lee Curtis has it allegedly.

    In other news it's the same original structure that forms ovaries and testes, they just migrate and develop differently.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ginner
    and Jamie Lee Curtis has it allegedly.

    is that the reason why she looks so manly? :eek:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by FLX
    is that the reason why she looks so manly? :eek:

    Probably best you ask her husband.

    There were some very disturbed looking males in the lecture that day.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    during a drunken girly night in recently me and my mate were talking about sex. She commented that she hated her boyfriend doing anything to her and wasn't keen on sex either cos it didn't feel anything special.
    We ended up talking about g-spots for some reason and she commented that her boyfriend thought it was ugly and wouldn't go near it :eek2: I managed to explain that what her boyfriend was talking about was actually her clit and her g-spot was totally different.

    I found it strange that a 19yr old girl and her 21yr old boyfriend knew less about the female anatomy than me...must've been hanging about on here too long ;)

    Just thought I'd share
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by xXxHelzxXx
    during a drunken girly night in recently me and my mate were talking about sex. She commented that she hated her boyfriend doing anything to her and wasn't keen on sex either cos it didn't feel anything special.
    We ended up talking about g-spots for some reason and she commented that her boyfriend thought it was ugly and wouldn't go near it :eek2: I managed to explain that what her boyfriend was talking about was actually her clit and her g-spot was totally different.

    I found it strange that a 19yr old girl and her 21yr old boyfriend knew less about the female anatomy than me...must've been hanging about on here too long ;)

    Just thought I'd share

    So that's why Sex Tips For Girls wasn't abandonned as a concept. I've watched it more than once and learnt nothing. Now I'm not claiming to be super studly, but I'm more modest than most. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Finding it- go buy a book, they all have directions! most of them are for girls about what to do for guys, but there's one I found called "sex tips for boys" or something, and it says:
    start at the front, move down past the vagina, then come back up, with your finger in a little deeper, when you touch it she should react quite a bit, if you've missed, just do it again.
    It works really well cos it doesn't SEEM like you're trying to find it- cos its really pleasant in itself, so she'll not notice that you don't know what you're doing, it feels like you're teasing her about what's to come.
    Otherwise, just explore explore explore- thats honestly the BEST thing you can do!!! NEVER STICK TO THE STERIOTYPICAL MOVES!!!
    I'm not strange am I? I just read this stuff cos I have a healthy interest, and I read them to give me ideas, they have some really good stuff in them, if it doesn't freak you out or make you blush, everyone should take a look.
    Freyja
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    another great sex & life-book would be: "The Sex Book" by Suzi Godson!

    loads and loads of tips, tricks and information for all sexes in any situation!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The Clitoris?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think I might have that one too actually- I have quite a library!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lil_one

    In basic terms...... a fetus, no matter what sex, develops the same to a certain point. If the Y chromosome (which makes XY thus male) is present at this point it will change the course of development. However if it is not present the fetus will continue to develop as a female (XX).

    yea basically, everyone starts off as female, then after a certain number of weeks of development, the Y chromosone is recognised and testosterone is released - which develops the male sex organs. XX chromosone then gets oestrogen released (i think but im not 100% sure on that part - it would just solve a problem i was thinking of)

    basically the Y chromosone triggers the release of testosterone
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Embarrsing question
    Originally posted by angel1886
    Can I sound stupid an ask where exactly your clit (sorry can't spell full word) is?

    Ha ha haa...

    You really need some porn on your basic channels in this country...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lil_one
    I just did a quick flick thru my textbook from last years cell and molecular biol class but couldnt find the quote i was looking for.

    In basic terms...... a fetus, no matter what sex, develops the same to a certain point. If the Y chromosome (which makes XY thus male) is present at this point it will change the course of development. However if it is not present the fetus will continue to develop as a female

    Yea..if a X sperm fertilises the egg it will be female and if a Y sperm fertilises the egg it will be male :D
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