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Guyz, please help me................................
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Guyz i am having a life crisis. how do u guyz like to be flirted with. how do u let a girl no if u r interested etc. please HELPPPPPP. thanx
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Guys dont get the female 'subtlty' in my experience. They are much less observant so u hve to virtually tell them what u want b4 they get a clue!
I was talking 2 my boyf and saying how i had a major 'thing' for him for abt 4 months b4 we actually got together... he said he had no idea and thought i was just being friendly (i was talking to him at every available moment, catching his eye, accidentally (on purpose) turning up where he was) and he still didnt have the slightest idea!
If i was u either make a move (eg just plant a kiss on him + see how he reacts) or wait for him 2do something but remember it may take a while.
This is just my opinion and maybe the shy guys i go 4 are totally unlike all the other guys.
Good luck
xxx Mia xxx
that is so true! my boyfriend is just like that, you practically have to strip naked in front of him before he will realise you like him! well he did anyway, i managed to make him see in the end and now we've been going out for 15 months! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> and he says that no one's ever fancied him ever, but i think thats because he just doesnt understand people being subtle, because he isnt exacty ugly!!! (he needs the strip naked approach!) so yeah i dont think boys *get* subtle flirting!
If you are going to casually hint, make sure its done with the subtlety of an enraged dinosaur. Otherwise it won't be noticed. I think the strip naked aproach is the only surefire way to get the point across.
Female flirting is very subtle (and I hate to say it, clever!).
I think blokes do get it but the whole 'eye catching' thing only every works if the guy is also attracted to you, otherwise it will go ignored sadly. It depends what type of guys you're after. The shy type won't appreciate the 'plant a kiss' approach where as the 'rugby player' type might well love it!
If i liked a girl I would make the first move if we had been chatting for a while and there seem like a chance - just ask them out for dinner or whatever.
Then again 'Girl-From-Mars' strip naked approach would be one worth thinking about (as long as you knew you were alone!)
Love from the ChunkyMonkey
Other times we just dont pick up on it till its blatent, or we pick up but we arnt 100% sure n expecially if its some1 we've known for ages then u dont wanna risk doing n e thing incase she says no n tells people.
Sounds ok in theory but i can never put these things into practice!
Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself
really girls, if you wanna make it bloody obvious you want a certain guy, be bloody obvious about it. be a complete pervert if neccesary, I think I speak for most guys when I say that a girl that seems up for a laugh is more attractive than a quiet girl who is scared to show what she wants.
come on ladies, email me on gt2masta@hotmail.com !!!!!
You silly billys.
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By the way im sure loads of girls have fancied you but you just dont know.
I just like to have a laugh and stuff. I have no idea how to flirt to be honest and I wouldn't know if someone is flirting with me or just being friendly!
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