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unsociable bugger
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What can I do!! I have lots of friends and like popping out after work for the odd jar or two. Sometimes friends in my group will cook dinner and invite me round. I need to return the favour but when i told my boyfriend he said 'Ill go out that night then'
Even if I ask him to come out with us some time he declines. he's just not interested in meeting my friends. I don't mind him not being there but I think he's starting to resent me going out so much!
On Friday I got back late (I had rung him several times to say where I was) and he got all moody!
I don't want to stop going out, I want to see my friends. We're both just so independent that we rarely do anything with eachother!! BAH!
Even if I ask him to come out with us some time he declines. he's just not interested in meeting my friends. I don't mind him not being there but I think he's starting to resent me going out so much!
On Friday I got back late (I had rung him several times to say where I was) and he got all moody!
I don't want to stop going out, I want to see my friends. We're both just so independent that we rarely do anything with eachother!! BAH!
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My hubby aint much of a mixer and he wouldnt like eating with people he dont know, so if he doesnt know them make him go one night with you for a few jars. Let him get to know them.
Id personally tell him WE are BOTH going out.......end off !!!!
Id deffinately have a talk with him and say you want you both to start having a social life together and meet different friends at the pub.
hopefully this night you have planned will make it better for you, if he has a good crack on with old friends then he is more likely to want to go out with other couples.
hope you have a good night
As long as he understands the fact that YOU respect and like your friends then that's fine.
No offence taken
No he doesent have to like them but he should show consideration and once in a while make the effort.
What you find with some people is they need that push so they will start going out and meeting their partners friends. My hubby would quite happily sit in and not go anywhere, I push him and once he is out he has a good time.
Byny, just be more domineering
I don't. I hate meeting t'missus' friends, cos I never know what to say and what to do. I can cope, and I can act well, but still- I don't blame him for being nervous.
Talk to him and ask him why he won't.