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What to do?
On Valentine’s Day, I went out for the night with a guy I used to go out with years ago. Had an excellent night, and also another good day in London. We were acting as if we were going out, holding hands etc, but nothing was actually said.
I was going to suggest getting together again, but have now found out he has another girlfriend.
My friend speculated that he was hoping I would say something (he seems quite shy), but I didn’t, and the other girl asked him and he said yes.
Any suggestions as to what I do now? It would be nice to know where I stand! I thought I could either say something now, before their relationship continues, or say something after they’ve split up (but who knows how long they could go on for?)
On Valentine’s Day, I went out for the night with a guy I used to go out with years ago. Had an excellent night, and also another good day in London. We were acting as if we were going out, holding hands etc, but nothing was actually said.
I was going to suggest getting together again, but have now found out he has another girlfriend.
My friend speculated that he was hoping I would say something (he seems quite shy), but I didn’t, and the other girl asked him and he said yes.
Any suggestions as to what I do now? It would be nice to know where I stand! I thought I could either say something now, before their relationship continues, or say something after they’ve split up (but who knows how long they could go on for?)
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If he has got himself a girlfriend then isn't it obvious where you stand?
I think you might just have to bite the bullet and move on. I'm hardly one to talk, but it's not going to do you any good hanging on to something that maybe just isn't worth hanging onto.
Yeah, it might turn out OK. Just don't pin all your hopes on it, I know that from my own experience.