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Hello all, this is my first post!
Basically, theres this girl at college who I've been getting to know slowly over the last couple of months and she's just great. I used to see her at the station and think 'I wish I knew her, she looks like such a nice person'. And well, strangely enough I now know her and she is such a nice nice person. Anyway, we get on great (I think), txt each other and speak on msn alot, we rarely see eachother in college as lessons are in different places and different times so I only really get to speak to her at the station/on the train.
Anyway, she suggested we went out a few weeks ago and have only just managed to arrange a time to go out (she's been pretty busy), and were going to Pizza hut on friday after college. I'd much rather goto the pub in the evening but its a start I guess. This girl is a really nice person to everyone, I just havn't managed to work out whether she's just being nice to me or whether she actually likes me maybe more than a friend? I know you'll just say 'ask her', and this is what im aiming to do.... I just dont know how to go about doing it
So, anyone got any ideas on how to find out her true feelings without making a complete fool of myself ?
Basically, theres this girl at college who I've been getting to know slowly over the last couple of months and she's just great. I used to see her at the station and think 'I wish I knew her, she looks like such a nice person'. And well, strangely enough I now know her and she is such a nice nice person. Anyway, we get on great (I think), txt each other and speak on msn alot, we rarely see eachother in college as lessons are in different places and different times so I only really get to speak to her at the station/on the train.
Anyway, she suggested we went out a few weeks ago and have only just managed to arrange a time to go out (she's been pretty busy), and were going to Pizza hut on friday after college. I'd much rather goto the pub in the evening but its a start I guess. This girl is a really nice person to everyone, I just havn't managed to work out whether she's just being nice to me or whether she actually likes me maybe more than a friend? I know you'll just say 'ask her', and this is what im aiming to do.... I just dont know how to go about doing it
So, anyone got any ideas on how to find out her true feelings without making a complete fool of myself ?
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When you see eachother at the station or something next time, that night will most likely arise in conversation, see what she has to say and if her words are positive then ask if she would like to go out again sometime. But when you ask try to build up some courage and say something like "Would you like to go out again sometime? As a date maybe?" And put on a sweet puppy dog smile lol.
Hope things go well, keep us posted
Edit: Welcome to the boards
you can have a drink at pizza hut, and your clearly in there you donut.
why are some people so blind??
I'm not blind I just dont want to piss things up
I saw her today briefly and said I'd speak to her later and she said if not she'd txt me but no txt