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I'm really worried..
I'm Soon to be getting back with my ex gf but I'm scared to because of my selfharming as I know it upsets her and she doesn't like me to do it, I don't like doing it but I still do. Anyway I don't know what to do because if I get back with her I could end up hurting her and if I walk away I like to think she'd find someone better, But I love her to much to walk away and I dunno what to do, I'm asking....No.. I'm begging for help because as much as I love her I don't want to hurt her, I love her to much to hurt her anymore...
Help please..
I'm Soon to be getting back with my ex gf but I'm scared to because of my selfharming as I know it upsets her and she doesn't like me to do it, I don't like doing it but I still do. Anyway I don't know what to do because if I get back with her I could end up hurting her and if I walk away I like to think she'd find someone better, But I love her to much to walk away and I dunno what to do, I'm asking....No.. I'm begging for help because as much as I love her I don't want to hurt her, I love her to much to hurt her anymore...
Help please..
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i know what yours saying sarah, but it's hard and i can't do it. im getting help, white lodge.. told ya bout it hun.
thanks neway
*hugs*
if she loves you; she'll understand and support you.
what does she say to you when she finds out you've done it?
Kirsty, your right, I love this Girl with all my heart, I've never felt like this about anyone, I think she's the one, I think it...No..I know she's the one and i'll make it last.
Thank you for the advice. I've slowed down alot recently and been selfharming alot less.
Thank you all:)
they give lil bit of pain without the actuall harm. read all about it and although its for pain sorta things it really does make u feel a whole lot better!
I have one and it rules!
No more painfull knees or the need to self harm
Woooo! two birds dwn with one zap!
Lay of her, I know what she was one about and you would of needed to know the rest of my conversation to understand what she ment/said.
sounds fun
*apoligises for innaproppraitness, goes off to buy one
i understand rude_boyz/whatever he is called now predicament. there is no way i wouldve ever gone out with anyone while still doing it badly. however, i know it isnt possible to just stop, switch it off and carry on with life. its not that straightforward. at least you are getting help RB which does matter and your g/f has to stand by you and support you all the way because that will make all the difference.
Wow.. thanks everyone, you been great and she's been helping me anyway/everyway she can...
I... don't want to lose her because of it.
Sorry hun, changed it as i'm no longer rude:( and..now imma man.. so it would either be.. non rude man.. or a new one.. so i got this
How did that happen exactly?
sex change?
Nope
I feel i've grown up more recently and I've became mature..
Oh... I didn't know you could change your username at all, without making a new account.
Not likely to be honest and, if it did happen, then you need to ponder over if it would be worth your while wanting someone who would let your cuts interfere with your relationship.
Why don't you see what she thinks about it all ?