A Love Triangle (again)

Former Member

Sorry for my problem being so commonplace...

It's a classical love triangle: I'm fed up with my boyfriend, 'cos there's no challenge anymore and I fancy his gorgeous blue-eyed mate. Is there any way to dump one and get another?
I'll hate to hurt my current bloke 'cos he's a nice guy and seems to care about me, but I'm so bored with him! On the other hand I'm very far from being sure that I can get it off with his mate and I'm scared to be left with nothing, i.e. lonely.

Please help, as it's getting pretty miserable <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

Former Member

Decide where the problem lies. If your bored with your b/f, might you be bored with his mate in a couple of months time.

If that happens you've really messed up. Does your b/f still fancy you. If he does then I wouldn't want to move on unless you were sure how his mate felt about you.

Your bored, but in a couple of weeks you might really like him again. If your certain that its finished for good between you and your boyfriend, then let him down gradually before making a public move on his mate.

What ever you decide, hope all goes well in your tangled love life!

Former Member

You are bored with this guy so its not fair on you or him to stay with him just because u are afraid of being alone.

Take the risk. If I were you I would leave this relationship. Not sure about going for his mate though. Tough one this.

Former Member

Thanks guys for your help!
You are right, the toughest thing is to know if I get bored with a new bloke too...
Perhaps it's best not to rush things and wait. The only problem is that my b/f is constantly making public as well as private sexual advances and I don't fancy him in that way as much as it used to be before. And I reckon he noticed since he already asked what was wrong.
Frankly I'm a bit scared going for his mate now as I foresee a massive explosion 8-() and things might get out of control...