Lots of arguments in relationships

Former Member

Is it a bad sign for a relationship if you're alaways having lots of arguments with your partner? Does it matter if it's big rows or just petty bickering? I can't seem to work it out. Some couples look as if they really enjoy all that shouting and screaming just so they can 'make up' afterwards.

Former Member

Major rows can be useful.

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How do you mean, j9j9?

Former Member

In any relationship couples are going to want different things at different times.

The result is either one person is totally obedient to the other or the inevitable rows. So I don't think rowing is necessarily a bad thing as long as it achieves a result both are satisfied with.

As for major rows, well lets be honest they are bound to happen.

Usually of course with one party storming off up to their bedroom crying, not cooking any tea and needing to receive a nice box of chocolates to make up <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

Former Member

I think that if your really mad about something, its usually best to let it out. There's a big difference between one off things like that, which usually help to clear the air, and constant bitching and point scoring.

I think if you are constantly having arguments and fights with your partner, first of all it normally leaves you feeling pissed off, secondly its a sign that a relationships dying on you.