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My last experience with a girl.....

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I didn't get a proper boner :( We had been together all day (I'd been getting boners all day) and kissing but then we stood up and it came to the crunch and I couldn't get a proper boner :( she started touching me but it still wouldn't come back :( Is this so abnormal?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not abnormal, probably typical. You're putting a lot of pressure on yourself to 'perform' so to speak, and you can get stage fright, esp if it's your first time (which I'm guessing it is?). Just take things slowly, try and relax and make sure you are totally ready. It can take a while to be comfortable in each others company and be emotionally ready for sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There's a few posts on this page already about this kinda thing.

    Everyone seemed to agree that it's nerves.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ilson-Youth
    failing that trade her in and get a good looking bird

    Thats just mean!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Faith
    Thats just mean!

    funny though :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BritJames
    Get some beteblockers, and take viagra.

    be hard all night and lose those nerves :p

    good intentions except the small promblem of beteblockers having the serious side effect of impotence!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive been on betas before....never made me impotent....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The same thing happened to me.

    Shot my confidence to hell, and I didn't try again for 2 years (all good that time!) :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive been on beta blockers, was veeeery chilled :D

    except for the asthma attck they gave me though :mad:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd say it's nerves. It's something we've all had at some time - or will experience sometime in the future.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
    I'd say it's nerves. It's something we've all had at some time - or will experience sometime in the future.

    No its not something we've all had, speak for yourself Wobble... :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Se7en
    No its not something we've all had, speak for yourself Wobble... :D
    One day. Just wait, it's a matter of time. One day. And the cockier you are about not suffering it, the worse it'll hit you and affect you when it does.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im sorry, that was me who posted the original link. Newham actually gets all the ladies...i fail all the time :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
    One day. Just wait, it's a matter of time. One day. And the cockier you are about not suffering it, the worse it'll hit you and affect you when it does.

    The man speaks sense.
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