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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi. im a 17 yr old girl.

ive been in my relationship for about 8 months and it is very serious.i love him but the problem is we keep havin really upsetting arguments. he fights wiv me and most of the time he causes them and blames them all on me. i cry aswell and he tells me to stop wiv the waterworks cus he thinks i do it to make him feel bad wen the truth is i cry because at times he really upsets me.

afterwards he says it was his fault and gets really upset and worries im going to dump him....i dont want to dump him but i cant carry on wiv the arguments. i keep sayin to him that if he does it again i want out but then i cant dump him cus i love him.

i just want the arguments to stop. i really dont need them at the moment especially after i found out my dad has been diagnosed wiv brain cancer and i am trying to sort out university and things. its all so difficult. he doesnt seem to understand that.

wot shall i do?how can i get the arguments to stop?

luv warped!

Since i was born i started to decay. Nuthin ever ever goes my way.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think perhaps you just need to have a bit of a break form each other. Tell him how you feel and that everything is getting on top of you. If he really loves you he'l understand and give you the time you need. After this break maybe he will have thought about your relationship and realise things need to change. You cant carry on having arguments that hurt you like this or you'l end up with deptession or something.

    Hope I've helped
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Give him an ultimatum. Explain to him that you are free and that you have your own life and if you ever want to leave him and get with another guy you can do it in a heartbeat if the arguments don't stop. Yes I know, you will tell me you love him. After all, the main purpose of life is being happy, and if you're not happy with this guy, even if you love him a lot, does it change the fact that you're heading the wrong way? Shygirl's idea to take a little break and breathe for a few days (or weeks, whatever it takes) is also pretty neat.

    ~There are three types of people in this world : those who can count, and those who can't.~

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